the Savants* State and the Normal Person* State – another way to think about the Savants* and the Normal Person* -attitudes

There is a bit of a thing we need to discuss the two different factions that have been at war with each other since time immemorial. We’ve called them liberals and conservatives, introverts and extroverts, we’ve called them anarchists and tyrants… There is a reason why these states are confused for personality traits or permanent political stance, when in fact, they are a sign as to what kind of soulmate relationships they are currently in.

Three states

the Savants* State thinkers (introverts, liberals, anarchists) are struggling to find a suitable partner, but are constantly being “hit on” by others. This is because they are highly intelligent, talented, and often good-looking to boot. They must “ice” themselves to fend off unwanted soul bonds at all times. This affects their thinking: they want to ensure freedom to everyone.

the Normal Person* State thinkers (extroverts, conservatives, tyrants) are FINE with who they are surrounded by. They feel they have enough opportunities to make friends, colleagues, and partners because they fall quite close to every kind of average there is. They are looking to bond with new people, but are not very fussy about who they would accept as a partner – as long as they’re at the same level or higher up on the social ladder than them.

Neutrals are people who have already found their “tribe” and are happy in it. In addition, they are also not very sought-after as partners or friends for whatever reason. They are not unpopular by any means, it’s just they are generally speaking NOT SO ATTRACTIVE, that people would thrive to break their relationships or to hire them away from a company they’re working for.

However, when the Savants* State thinkers meet their Precious Soulmates or True Emotion Mirrors, they will start acting surprisingly the Normal Person*. This can freak them out a bit. They have been the victim of unwanted bonding attempts of all kinds, so the Savants* may react to normal relationship progressions a little similarly to rape victims reacting to normal sexual situations… but in reverse. They find themselves wanting to do what was done to them, and this scares them: “Have I become the very thing I swore I’d never be…?!”

the Savants* are in a Savants* State by default, and this has traumatized them a bit

When normal people form relationships, they rarely get attacked by other people. If they do, this quickly solves into mutual laughter or some kind of a quick resolution where the fight makes them better friends rather than worse. Their relationships flow rather easily from one stage to the next and they have very little understanding as to why the Savants* must make their relationships so difficult. There’s a reason.

the Savants* are unusually attractive people. They’re the type that EVERYONE finds attractive enough to hire/befriend/fuck/date/marry. They may perhaps not find them perfect but certainly attractive enough to “make something out of him/her”. Everybody is more than willing to take a Savants* on as a project to “perfect them”. They are, thus, constantly in the firing line of people’s opinions as to how they should be, what they should do, what would make them better people. This puts them on constant defense, constantly having to justify themselves, explain themselves, and to defend their territory and right to be who they are. They are CONSTANTLY being “love raped” by other people.

This, in turn, has made them DEMAND people respect boundaries of all kinds and give others THE FUCKING SPACE THEY DESERVE AND ARE ENTITLED TO.

Once they meet their True Emotion Mirror

However, once a Savants* meets their True Emotion Mirror, suddenly, they want to act very similarly to the Normal Person*. They want to burst through doors, demand explanations, argue, call them out on their bullshit, tell them what they RRRREALLY THINK, and act what they call VERY DISRESPECTFUL in general. Love is disrespectful. It is careless, and it is whimsical, but… When targeted at a person who doesn’t return those feelings… Ewwwfuck.

Once a Savants* experiences the need to bust in the doors and take their pray out in handcuffs to be used for their own personal pleasure, it goes against everything they believe to be right and justified in relationships. They suffocate their own need to act as nature intended. This hinders the start of their True Emotion Mirror -relationships, because, believe it or not, it feels GOOD to be ransacked by someone who you actually love and want to bond with in every way possible. What feels like an attack of the worst type from 99% of people, to a Savants*, feels like heavens opening from a True Emotion Mirror. Thus, their counterpart, instead of feeling respected, feel rejected instead. (If you don’t believe me, imagine yourself as the victim of the person you’re in love with and see how it feels like.)

This is to say… Be aware of this, and once this happens to you if you’re a Savants*… Come back here.

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