There are no laws in the Universe that dictate who you should love

Many people take the idea of soulmates (let alone True Emotion Mirrors) to obligate another person to love them. That is not what soulmates are about, I guarantee you. They are the people who you’ve most loved in all of your incarnations, coming back to you. However, if the love goes away, for whatever reason, the relationship becomes more taxing than what it is worth; for example, eventually, the friend/lover who feels taxed will sever these bonds.

Soulmates are supposed to bring joy into your life, and if they manage to be nothing but a burden or one-sided so that one person feels utterly loved. In contrast, the other feels taken advantage of rather than anything; the unhappy partner or friend will have to work to balance the relationship or end it. When one of the parties does not care about the well-being of the other but is simply the beneficiary of the bond, it is only a matter of time before the connection breaks.

There’s a time for everything.

Not all soulmate connections are eternal, nor are they supposed to be. Some encounters with another spirit are brief but meaningful, and others may last lifetimes before they run their course. Then, there are the eternal bonds, the True Emotion Mirrors, and Precious Soulmates.

However, you are under no obligation to tolerate ANYTHING in this world, despite the label that some Internet chick’s soulmate typology might give to your bond. You are not obligated to give up on someone if you both want to see where your relationship is going. And to be fair, nobody can force anyone to let go of you either, no matter how obvious their hope is false. Just know that the time will come when you’ll have to stand up for yourself and severe bonds that no longer serve you, particularly bonds that never served you well in the first place.

Don’t waste your love on people who will not get on their own two feet due to it.

Remember this. Love is supposed to heal people. It’s supposed to make you strong. It is NOT THERE to make you a co-dependent, weak, vulnerable adult child. Love is supposed to make men out of boys and women out of girls. If you give love to someone in a weakened state, YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO EXPECT that this love will help them get back up, get their life together, and move on – either with you or on their own.

You waste your love on people who have no intention of getting their shit back together again. Don’t waste love on people who think their best bet to get love is to look as pathetic as possible. As a habit, continuously, month after month, year after year. Some problems are more difficult to solve, but if you feel like you’re trying to make a rock for yourself out of a potato sack, move on.

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