Potential State True Emotion Mirror

The Potential True Emotion Mirror is NOT a real True Emotion Mirror, but it has the potential to become it. It is a connection between two people who are SO NEARLY perfect for each other that it takes some elbowing and adjusting to make it perfect. It is different from the Uncharted True Emotion Mirror. The Uncharted one has no friction; you know it will work – you will merely give each other the space to be who you are, and it will be fine, but the Potential True Emotion Mirror takes a little adjusting.

There is more WILL in play than with the Uncharted True Emotion Mirror, which can be a connection between two people who are so open to other people’s different personalities that you do not feel restricted by them at all. They feel the same freedom with you, but a Potential Emotion Mirror finds walls in this connection. There’s growing to do, pushing to be done. You both must make enough space for yourselves in that relationship. Fearlessly, because you intend to stick around… Forever, actually.

A Potential True Emotion Mirror requires a little the Normal Person*ing.

Most True Emotion Mirror connections are purely the Savants* -stuff, but the Potential True Emotion Mirror requires a bit of the Normal Person* -mentality: This is what I need, and this is what you need. Let’s see if we can make those needs be met. In other True Emotion Mirror connections, those needs are and will be met; perhaps liberties that you didn’t ask for have already been given, but with a Potential True Emotion Mirror connection, you need to carve yourself a spot in the other one’s life. Get used to each other. The fit is snugger than with an Uncharted True Emotion Mirror, but it may also feel nicer from the start. It feels less precarious. You sense your boundaries easier.

With a Potential True Emotion Mirror, your values match near 100%.

With a Potential True Emotion Mirror, your values match almost completely. You may like slightly different music. Perhaps your aesthetics are not quite the same. You must GROW to meet each other’s interests and curiosities, and you must learn to match each other’s intelligence. You must become BETTER for each other or give up things you previously thought were important and valuable.

Obviously, this wish to do so must be mutual. You must look at each other with a curious intent: “Let’s do it. Let’s figure this out. Hash it out, make it happen. Let’s become inseparable” because you WANT TO.

It starts with a crush.

A Potential True Emotion Mirror starts with something as simple as a crush. Not all of your crushes are going to develop into real True Emotion Mirror bonds, but that’s where they start if they’re going to start. It is up to you how far you’re going to be looking into each crush that you have, and where you’re going to tap out.

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