“Emotionally unavailable”?

So often, we hear women complaining about men who are “emotionally unavailable.” Well, ladies, here’s the thing; They’re in love with someone else, whether they admit it or not, whether a real person or an ideal they seek. Everyone, women included, turns away from others when they fall in love with someone. The only exception to this rule is polygamous people. Everyone needs to be either widowed or consciously aware of their polygamous alignment to be emotionally available to someone else after falling in love with one person.

This is not a question of whether they’re single, married (to you, even), or dating someone. If their heart belongs to someone, they will be emotionally unavailable for everyone else. If you happen to be the ‘someone else,’ you’d be delighted to hear this is how it works. Still, if you are the one feeling the rejection, you’d probably feel a bit peeved and frustrated about it.

Being emotionally unavailable due to love for someone else is not a problem. It’s romantic. Let them poor boys be.

The only other explanation is that you keep hurting him in a way that you’re not aware of, and they keep protecting themselves from your emotional brutality.

To find true love, remain emotionally available for your intended friends and lovers only. Ignore everyone else.

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