How do I find my True Emotion Mirrors?

Your True Emotion Mirror is LITERALLY the man or woman of your dreams. They perfectly fit for you, perfectly suitable, perfectly… Perfect. They may be FAR from perfect in the general sense; they’ll have their issues, muddy pasts, and humanity, but, to you, they are a perfect match, to your bullshit, to your traumas, to your quirks and difficult personality traits.

The more REFINED and difficult your personality is, the more likely you will have a True Emotion Mirror (or a few) because you’ve felt SAFE to become so bizarre. Effectively, your True Emotion Mirror has encoded you into a person nobody else understands… And you’ve done the same to them. So, until you both/all find each other again, you’re both screwed. Anyway…

To call for your True Emotion Mirror, allow yourself to daydream and fantasize; sexual fantasies apply. MEN, too. In your dream, don’t picture the face to this person… At least don’t AIM to give them a face. Allow the face to emerge if it does, but be very comfortable with faceless characters. This liberates you from feeling you’re violating someone specific with your fantasies. Let the faces fill themselves out on their own.

In addition, from now on, I forbid you from doing anything you don’t enjoy.

We all have to live, right, but beyond ensuring your livelihood is safe, put in 0 extra effort for anybody. Do stuff you enjoy only. If that means you enjoy putting a smile on someone’s face, do it, but NEVER AGAIN to be a nice, well-liked, admirable person or to appease someone demanding. I don’t suggest you start fights or anything, but let’s just say if someone demands you to do something you don’t enjoy, don’t hide the fact you’re put off by the task, even if you agree to do it.

But rather than focus on pissing people off, which is never a good idea, you just garner unwanted attention to yourself like that. Rather, stay out of people’s way and focus on things you enjoy doing. If anything on your path feels weird or off, just avoid that task, even if it seems weird and counter-productive. (In my case, I tend to start projects and then suddenly feel a strong urge to halt – even delete/unpublish entire projects. It’s frustrating, but after learning to follow and trust my intuition, I do it anyway.)

Follow your bliss and end negative relationships permanently.

Live as happily as you can. Follow your bliss.

Eliminate negativity and negative relationships from your life, even if it means cutting contact with everyone you know. It is true that True Emotion Mirrors kinda demand you to be free from relationship drama, and sometimes it means you have to put a lot of people behind you and keep them there. It may be a task to still clear those old energies and cut the emotional tie completely, but you have to do it.

Don’t allow manipulative, selfish people into your life. (Well, everybody is selfish, but only keep those whose selfishness you enjoy, too.) Stop proving yourself to be a good, loyal friend, and realize that people can lead you down the wrong path a long way by simply promising you can have your halo back when you get to the destination. You’ll never get your halo. NEVER.

Your meeting place is at a (sex) life you’d enjoy.

Your True Emotion Mirror is your perfect match. Therefore, when you don’t think about anyone else’s wishes per se, but simply think about what YOU want more than anything, you’ll automatically think of your True Emotion Mirror’s perfect life, too. The only time this isn’t exactly true is when they simply haven’t thought about it yet, it just didn’t occur to them – or vice versa.

You must not forcibly keep people around.

Lastly, you can’t forcibly keep people around or sabotage other’s relationships when someone you like is moving on. If someone wants to get away from you for whatever reason, even if that’s your True Emotion Mirror, you’ll have to give them the right to go. You’ll have to try and make yourself ready for a True Emotion Mirror relationship – so when that person comes to you, YOU won’t be the one running away or start acting erratically even if they do. You are the only person you can control, and I suggest you do a good job of making sure YOU will not be the one with problems – honestly and to the best of your ability (not just giving it lip service).

That’s a good starting point, but preparing yourself not to run from a relationship that will take all of your self-confidence to stay, no matter who you are is no small feat to do. This is why True Emotion Mirrors are hard to find and even harder to couple up with. But once you’re together, there’s nothing like it in this world.

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