Should I contact my True Emotion Mirror? Hesitations.
You may be in a situation in which you could, technically, contact your True Emotion Mirror in person, but something is stopping you from doing so. You may be beating yourself up about not doing so, finding yourself making up excuses for your inaction. There might be a feeling of guilt for being a coward, maybe. There’s a good chance you feel like you’re dodging it for some reason, and you’ll easily find yourself making up excuses on top of excuses over why you’re not taking the leap of faith.
There’s going to be the REAL reason why you’re not acting, and then, there are the excuses. If you truly ask yourself what the reason is, you’ll find the answer. The TRUE answer. Here’s a few from a collection of True Emotion Mirrors:
“I don’t think I’m wealthy enough. I feel like you’ll drain every last penny out of my pocket and I can’t say no to a woman like you. I’ll lose you once I run out of money.”
“I fear I’ll drag you away from your life and then you’ll find out I’m not that fabulous at the end of the day, and your life will be ruined.”
“I fear you’ll change, you’ll start posing. You’ll become fake and ruin yourself from me.”
“I’m fighting myself against my own feelings. I want you so bad it’s criminal. It cannot be the right thing to do to have someone you want so much.”
“I am, frankly, scared shitless. I don’t know what I’m going to say that wouldn’t make you laugh for a year.”
“I feel like if I take that step, the ground will fall from underneath me. What I have is solid. You are the thing that will evaporate the base of my world. I may think you’re worth it, but I fear that’s a stupid thing to think.”
“I have children who I love less than I love you. That scares the hell out of me. I fear if I give you a little finger, I will do anything for you, including abandoning my own children.”
“My mother feels you’re bad for me. I feel like I should probably listen to her about that…”
I also get a description of an action that is done despite fears. In it, the person kind of ignores his fears and “bursts” through them, causing a bit of damage on his way. This is one fear people may have, that by ignoring their fears and acting against them, they’ll have to “drive with their eyes closed” as they’re too scared to look where they’re going. Obviously, not a great way to go about it.
“I feel I have a tied tongue for some reason like I SHOULD NOT talk to you… yet. Like it’s ‘not time’ yet.”
Contemplate the source of your hesitations
The source of your fears may be the very thing that is causing your separation. Contemplate them. Run them through a diagnostics program and examine them in detail. Feel and observe your feelings. Meditate on it if you need to. Just dig out the final answer and process it.
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