You don’t think you’re being controlled?
What controls people is the fear of a negative label. That people will start attaching unflattering labels on you because of something they found out about you, something you did or didn’t do. Coward, loser, bail-out, quitter, gullible, conspiracy theorist, villain, rich bitch, home wrecker, player, shallow… Not a good man (very generic), not a good woman…
You know? You’d tolerate rubbish behavior from your wife or husband just so that they can’t point a finger at you and say you dumped your spouse when it got too difficult. That you’re undependable. Unreliable. Not-very-family-oriented. Untrustworthy.
What label do you fear currently? What label makes you jump through hoops right now? Is it really worth fearing? Is it a label that is TRUTHFUL?
If the shoe fits, take the label and live accordingly. Fight it only if it’s not true, and even then, know that people hold you down forever for as long as you seem to care what THEY think of you. The only thing Depp-“haters” need to do to keep Johnny Depp linked to themselves forever is to keep believing Amber’s lies… Or for Johnny to realize what those people think of him is their business and not really under his control if they decide to hate him forever for what some bitch said about him.
And you can attach whatever the fucking label you want on me for calling Amber Turd a bitch… And a turd. And a cunt and a moron… and a liar and… “A fan girl” would hurt, but it would work as an awesome joke.
And SHE can live with those fucking labels for the rest of her life – as I’m not the only one using them. The thing is… I don’t think she gives a shit, and that makes her one type of a fucking zen master.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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