Is the True Emotion Mirror relationship ‘durable’ and ‘ever lasting’?

From the Savants* perspective, yes, the Normal Person*perspective, no. Same thing, different answer. The reason is that the Normal Person* value predictability, security, safety, permanence, and reliability about a partner, all of those things that a True Emotion Mirror isn’t, particularly from the start. The beginning of a True Emotion Mirror relationship is almost always rocky and awful. The first few moments are blissful, disintegrating quickly into doubts and weird shit, to tell you the truth. This is the reason why the relationship sometimes turns telepathic to iron out some of the difficulties before you meet again, to make it a little easier to make things work.

The relationship is everlasting in the Savants* view only; the mutual feelings of love, unity, and belonging together will remain, even if they wax and vane, change and make you throw in the towel very soon to the start of the relationship – only to be picked up again later… Eventually, for good. It is anything but predictable on the way there.

Therefore, True Emotion Mirrors should never tie their finances together too tightly too soon, as you’ll find yourself in very awkward situations with them, unable to escape each other when you need to. If things get too bad, you may never want to return, either. Frankly, the chances of divorce or breakup are super high over the smallest of tiffs, and if you need to separate your marital assets to get rid of each other, the threshold to trying again will be too high. You should keep your financial and practical ties to your True Emotion Mirror light as a feather until you feel very solid in your relationship and have at least a year of no breakups before making anything too permanent.

The certainty that you feel about your True Emotion Mirror is real, and it can be dependent on in the Savants* sense. Still, to a dog-type, these relationships are far too unpredictable for them to even find value in. Sadly, the Normal Person* in the life of the Savants* who love this True Emotion Mirror dynamic add yet another layer of drama into the mix, as the Normal Person*parents try to protect their the Savants* children from everything that their children want, not even being theoretically able to understand what they’re doing wrong in their child’s life.

Speaking of telepathy, the telepathic fix of being tied to your True Emotion Mirror without a break will help things along; being able to feel every feeling and thought your True Emotion Mirror feels is very rewarding and inspiring, feels safe and full, but the same treatment will destroy a Trail Companion* relationship in a very short time for a Savants*. Unfortunately, the Normal Person* can only ever hold onto partial value mirrors because the difference will make people feel superior to their partner (always), and the Normal Person* like that feeling; the Savants* hate it in a relationship that is supposed to be romantic or trust-filled. An Savant* will never trust their inferior; the Normal Person*will never trust their superior; because a superior can do whatever they want with you, therefore they like the sense of power they feel in a relationship with someone who is different from them and makes them feel automatically superior no matter how subjective that sense of superiority might be.

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