How should the Savants* liberate themselves from the Normal Person*tyranny?
When a Savants* is not in love with a person, they will HAVE TO LEARN to say no to any social interaction, relationships, AND SEX when they don’t want it. The Savants* need to learn to disappoint the dog-type’s hope for a relationship. An Savant* needs to learn to tolerate the discomfort of making the Normal Person*tolerate a disappointment of a closed door, (you can go anywhere but here) and the fact they are not always loved and wanted or even welcome into every event and any group possible.
the Savants* will have to stop having sexual relationships and children with people they are not fully in love with. This is the cruelty the Savants* need to become comfortable inflicting on others. The Savants* need to learn to draw a CLEAR boundary to what they will and won’t do for a dog-type, EVEN IF the Normal Person*does not understand or agree with the Savants*’ reasoning.
the Savants* need to learn to SAY NO to relationships they do not want – and to the highest degree to not hire the Normal Person* into companies they own – especially if that person in question isn’t PERFECT for the job.
There are times when a Savants* WILL fall in love with a dog-type, and in those situations, my advice is for you to check that card until you know what you want. Then, you’ll just have to be a lot sterner when you wish this relationship to end IF YOU DO. The fact is, however, that high love between the Normal Person*and the Savants* rarely works out smoothly from the start anyway, because their bonding strategies are entirely different – the Savants* flirtation is the Normal Person*rejection – but if you are a relationship master, do try it if your sanity needs it.
Make the Normal Person* adjust to a situation where they cannot enjoy your continued company and cannot really call you a friend. It may sound cruel, but that will literally end the bullshit that we have learned to accept as “the way things are”, and “how it’s always done”. The Normal Person* do not belong in the position of power, but they seek nothing as willingly as power. They also do not rule with compassion, care, and intelligence, as to them, all care and compassion mean force and strict rules. “They’ll calm down once they know their place” is the Normal Person*thinking that the Savants* must now adopt for everyone’s good.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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