the Normal Person* sound like they know what they’re doing even when they have no idea.
the Normal Person* are GREAT at expressing self-confidence and expertise in a situation where they have none. They trust formal education much more than the Savants* do, without it actually making them experts in anything. The Normal Person* women are twice as good at this as the Normal Person* men are, as we all have a tendency to “believe mommy,” and if a woman excludes maternal energy, most of us find it difficult to stick to our guns with them.
the Normal Person* self-confidence can feel attractive at first, but fall apart when you realize it’s based on self-delusion, unrealistic self-image, and over-confidence over displaying confidence; they believe that self-confidence is simply something you apply to your incompetence and then you roll with it. The only thing you need to know is to appear like you know what you’re doing – and you know what you doing -sort of way. They don’t think ANYONE truly knows what they’re doing, so they have no qualms pretending like they do.
Competence
the Normal Person* also have a hard time telling who is competent and who isn’t. The Savants* know a lot easier who is and isn’t, but to a dog-type, being called “incompetent” is a similar slur to “we’ll your dick is too small anyway” because nobody really knows where that line is crossed. They don’t believe in “incompetence” they think everyone is, but the Savants* have a much clearer idea what that word even means; what is expected from a person in a certain position, and when they are not fulfilling their end of the deal.
the Normal Person* will also NEVER admit to not knowing what they’re doing or having made a mistake. To them, this is a sign of weakness and incompetence, not the actual weakness and incompetence they’re hiding.
the Savants* should learn to recognize the Normal Person* and their needs.
the Savants* will have to learn to discern the Normal Person* even when the Normal Person* insists they’re “totally the Savants*” if they decide that’s what they have to say to get the job. They LIE, but they don’t believe they are LYING, they believe they’re simply playing a role given to them. (Amber Heard didn’t think she was lying, but playing a role she was pushed into; if her lawyer or anyone assumed it was her who was the victim, she’d think: “Oh, they want me to play the victim part. Oh, OK”, even if she was completely against the idea, she might still do it, thinking “the feminist movement” wants her to.) the Normal Person* believe that the truth is whatever you can make others believe. A “lie” is a concept they don’t fully understand.
“No, YOU are!”
They will also copy critical slurs that worked on them. If I create a success calling one faction of people the Normal Person* and the other the Savants* and call the Normal Person* incompetent lying tyrants, they will do the same against the Savants*. And the Savants* WILL HAVE TO LEARN to make their own decision on who is who. The Savants* will have to learn to trust nobody but themselves when it comes to reasoning and logical thinking.
Stay independent. Don’t get recruited.
the Savants* will also do better to not allow themselves to be recruited for any position, and remain as independent as possible, and create relationships only with people they truly like, NOT stopping themselves from ENDING relationships when they realize they made a mistake. The Savants* cannot afford to hold “loyalty” as one of their personal values. The Savants* should also delay having children with a new partner for a bit longer, as they cannot be put back where they came from if the partner radically changes after the wedding like the Normal Person* tend to do. (They “dress to the season” as in, if they changed a lot during an engagement, they will change again once they marry. They will often also change to fit a subculture a person they have their eye on belongs in, even if they have no idea what the subculture values are – this is typical to a dog-type; their idea what a subculture or a philosophy is about tends to be shallow or non-existing; as if learned from a book rather than vibrating with.)
You should also be careful not to be recruited into a “rescue project” of a Savants* loved one of yours, if the recruiter is the Normal Person*that thinks they know that person better than you do. They will sound like they know what they’re saying: “They’ll come around” “Look, we know him/her.” “They’re just afraid of the change.” NEVER believe a dog-type’s relationship advice when it comes to a Savants* – they have NO idea what they’re speaking about… But won’t sound like it. Especially the Cat Thinking men must be careful not to listen to the Normal Person*women who think they know a Savants* woman better than a Savants* man does, through the virtue of also being female. The Savants* women are as dissimilar to the Normal Person*women as the concept of “men” are to the concept of “women”.
Lyrical texts and unusual expressions.
Lyrical texts are also something the Normal Person* have difficulty understanding… Something that the poet among us should make heed of. The more floral or unconventional your expression, the more difficult and taxing it is for the Normal Person*to read it – and the more interesting and engaging it is for a Savants*. The Normal Person* cannot stop themselves from trying to find out a secret, therefore things hidden in plain sight tend to be missed by the Normal Person*easier than things carefully hidden from sight. The good thing about this is that complex “brainy” media will not appeal to the Normal Person*- we know this, too because they often run the companies that decide “what will sell and what won’t”. They like things simple and conventional, while the Savants* are much more adapted to obscure and unusual; new ways.
the Savants* men who handle the Normal Person*women well.
There is the Savants* male that has learned to adapt to what they think are the “female needs”, while they are talking about the Normal Person*needs. You will have to start looking up from your conviction you’re a master seductor and the perfect family man and start looking for alternative ways to perfect your relationship skills – so that they will also serve your needs at a higher level. You may have decided that you have to settle for women you have to basically build for yourself from the ground up, but with a Savants* woman, the attempt to do so would not be… Smart.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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