Yes. Some of us really like sex.

It may come as a shock to you that the love of sex isn’t a gender thing. Some of us women do love sex, and we want a sexual relationship that lasts a lifetime. The ultimate dream may be to find someone you feel sexually attracted to from the start and to whom that attraction never dies. This is equally a male dream as it is a female dream, but we do think differently from those who want to be “liberated” from their sexual needs as they age.

Some of us feel we’d rather die than lose our sexuality. Some feel differently. And if you’d rather feel liberated from your sexuality, you should never date someone who’d rather die than lose their sexual drive. It’s simply unfair to you both.

While some people do subject themselves to sexual relationships in order to get something else, it would never work if there weren’t people who want sex over simple closeness or security. There are both types of people; some want sex as a key factor to an important relationship, others want everything but. You’d be wise to know which group you belong in and never date within the other no matter how embarrassed you might feel about whichever group you belong in.

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