You cry for love… Like an infant baby.

When you are a baby, you will cry for love, care, attention, being cared for… And you shall receive what you ask. This privilege will end around the time you turn 6. After that, a normal person will start working toward making others feel good about themselves. A normally developing child will try and be a nice person to other people. They won’t ask what they get out of it, their natural instinct is to make others happy.

When a person learns and succeeds in making others happy, it creates an involuntary reaction we call “love.”

Threaten people with a bad word to get sex.

Now. There are people who bitch and moan at others about how they are not tending to their romantic or sexual needs as if they were a baby crying for a bottle or change of diapers. As far as sexually appealing strategies go, this is about as appealing as watching someone have a shit as a form of seduction. Don’t fucken do this. I’m sure there might be some fetishist out there that is a sucker for this, but you know… MOST PEOPLE won’t find this appealing at all.

The way this works is to make others feel WORSE than normal about themselves so that they must engage in some activity that will make them feel accepted again. This is abuse. It is SEXUAL abuse of another adult.

This includes claiming someone is *enter word here* if they don’t give you love/sex: “If you don’t date a transperson, that means you’re *transphobic*.” “If you don’t date a fat person, it means you’re shallow.” You get the idea.

Don’t go so far to avoid negative labels that you’ll date or sleep with people YOU find unattractive for whatever reason.

Now, for those of you who are influenced by this, realize you are afraid OF A WORD. You’ll exchange your sexual freedom to choose your partner for the removal of a label (a word) that someone has decided to be a negative thing. To protect yourself from abuse of this kind, realize that the lesser of two evils is that some abuser thinks you’re “discriminating” against them rather than unwillingly sleeping with someone you don’t find attractive.

You can expand this advice to any of your PERSONAL relationships. I suggest you create as wide clearance to the first unappealing person as you can – the closer a friend they are, the closer they wish to get – the less they know you or your friends, the better.

ALSO, stop thinking that sleeping with CIS-gendered straight white people is the ultimate goal in your life. XD

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