You’d be relieved to know that other the Savants* won’t actually judge you for these.

A lot of the things we the Savants* do are under the influence and power of the Normal Person*, even though we’d hate to admit it. Ironically, we do things the Normal Person* Thinking way to avoid judgment from fellow the Savants*.

the Normal Person* Thinking women, in particular, have no problems speaking for the entire female gender when only a fraction of them feel that way. Therefore, a lot of men have to adjust to the Normal Person* Thinking woman, leaving the Cat Thinking female forced to pretend to be a lot more the Normal Person* Thinking than what they actually are… And vice versa.

So. What do we actually think?

• We are superior. Sorry.
• We are a bit elitist. We’re also a bit perfectionist, and we love those things… And would love it more if we felt we were allowed to.
• “Elitist” and “perfectionist” have a negative connotation only because Dog-Type Thinkers have conditioned us to think that way.
• We will never judge you for telling the truth or bringing bad people to light—even your own family.
• If you want a secret society where the people are carefully and even cruelly vetted before accepting them, you’re not alone. (We’ll judge you for revealing too much about it to the wrong person, tho, potentially forcing us to lie, which we don’t like doing.)
• If you miss the old class system but also wholly believe in equality between genders, races, and birth backgrounds. You just don’t think any random pair of individuals are equal by default.¹
• BIG: If you’d refuse to have pity friends (people who you’re friends with so you won’t be judged for being ‘choosy’ or an elitist), fellow the Savants* would feel relieved to have that same right to be picky about their friends and dates.
• Looks matter in a relationship. (Not so much in friendships, but in that, too.)
• Intelligence matters in a relationship. (And friendship.)
• Fitness is beautiful.
• the Savants* wouldn’t judge you for thinking you’re good-looking if you are.
• the Savants* like a bit of a brag… As long as it’s on the cusp of realism.
• Obviously, you’ll take the job that pays best – as long as it’s exciting otherwise.
• If you love what you do, you’ll take a pay cut to keep doing it – you’re working for your own happiness, not a slave to your family… Even if you’re a guy. But it would be good if the kids were fed, at least. ;p
• Sorry, but we like entertainment in various forms… And we don’t easily grow out of it. And sorry, watching YOUR children grow doesn’t pass for entertainment.
• Children are not the most important thing in life; sex is. Children should happen because of sex; sex shouldn’t happen in order to have children.
• Health is sexy and thriving for a high fitness level makes you sexier.
• Intelligence is the sexiest in a good-looking, fit person.
• the Savants* don’t automatically judge you for sexual promiscuity.²
• Shameless sexuality is attractive.
• Shameless sexuality can make an “ugly” intelligent person a sexual feast… But they make for poor romantic partners.
• Romance HAS TO LOOK GOOD. A good part of romance is visual beauty.
• Physical beauty and high intelligence are more important than financial security, status, and money.
• Power should be used to create equal opportunity, not equal outcomes.
• Potentially having sex with your co-workers would make work life more interesting.
• Sex shouldn’t lead to automatic commitment.
• We’re a bit perverted. We’d love to live in communities with very loose sexual morals… Being permitted to do whatever, according to our own clear individual base rules. (Sex clubs.)
• We are INCURABLE romantics, but we get very, very, very disappointed if we can’t have very sappy (and sexy and oddly dirty) romances – with the same person. Dirty sex, romantic sex, and romance itself must be rolled into one package.
• Marriage formed to start a family is a disapointment, not the fulfillment of romantic fantasies.
• Marriage should be a fulfillment of romantic fantasies and, only secondarily a base for a family.
• Abandoning a friend for a moral reason is acceptable and expected.
• You don’t promote a friend or a family member to a position they cannot handle. That’s irresponsible.
• We tend to have spiritual beliefs that go beyond the Church and science. We particularly love the thought of a soulmate and eternal love bonds.
• When we get depressed it’s because of feeling like we’ve lost an opportunity to experience great sex or for losing our romantic status.
• Age doesn’t bother us as long as we are still interested and interesting sexually and romantically speaking. (We’d love to be allowed to get vain about it and join the gym without judgment.)
• We feel like beauty should be a god given, but would be relieved to know joining a gym won’t make us unattractive because we’re considered vain and “insecure.”
• We may come off very serious and intense at times, but we’re that way because we don’t want to ruin our sexual status to acting ridiculously.
• We should never enter a marriage thinking “there’s always divorce” but we’re VERY OFTEN talked into it by judgmental family members and friends. You’d be relieved to know NOT ONE OF US agrees you should have married when you did if this is the way you married, but we don’t judge you for having done it, nor for snapping out of it; even if you’re male.
• Biggest taboo: We wish we were allowed to love our romantic partner(s) more than our children because we do. By a fraction, to be fair.³
• We barely remember our parents sometimes. We have to remind ourselves that they exist. (We wish our children would love their freedom and come back for a quick hug, do a quick welfare check every once and a while after we turn 80 or something, and fly off again.)
• Pets are more important to us sometimes than humans – but this applies only to the Savants* who haven’t got a True Emotion Mirror in their lives.
• We will never judge you for anything that makes you enjoy life. NEVER. Unless it’s enjoyment of hurting other people, in which case we might agree or disagree… Depends. ;p
• You’d also be relieved to know that the people who you consider inferior think very highly of themselves and their own kind, and they see it as a favor to accept and marry our snooty asses. 😀

1. the Savants* believe anyone has the right to prove themselves to be members of the elite despite who they are by their birth background, but they don’t believe all abilities, personalities, IQ levels, and skill levels etc. are equal in value and worth. (Communist thinking.) They may still believe each individual is equally entitled to thriving for happiness and personal freedom, but if there’d only be room for 100 people on a space shuttle that is going to re-establish humanity on a new planet after this explodes, the Savants* would fill it up with the best of the best; best looking, smartest… With Hitler-mentality, basically, but without any attention on race. ↩

2. They may be put off by it depending on their own underlying poly leaning but not judge it. ↩

3. We feel our children should be equally free to experience the romance of their lifetimes and not worry about us. If we were tied to our child more than our own romantic partner, they’d be prevented from doing that and that would be horrible. The Cat Thinking couples love their children FIRST as a UNIT: “We love our children” rather than individually, to them, as parents, their children come first, but as individuals, they love each other most. ↩

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