Adulthood is about making choices – now feminists fight to keep those choices inaccessible.

The Victorian men were right to say women wouldn’t be able to handle men’s world. “Sure we can,” and they came in to turn it into a women’s world, where there’s no space for adult CIS-gendered heterosexuals of either sex. At least around their time, you could just slip into the “other world” by flashing an ankle; now, you can’t run the streets naked to fully leave the norm behind.

Having said that, having the right to work, vote, and divorce your husband – among other perks – is a good thing that I doubt even feminists want to remove, but let’s just say they have a fantastic way of taking the fun out of all of those things. You work, but in a CERTAIN ONE WAY, you vote with the liberals lest you be a bitch, and you divorce… Well, at least we can still have all the fun we want divorcing our husbands while they cry after their reputation, money, and their children. (I’m being sarcastic here.) Not cool.

While women’s rights are increasing, men’s are diminishing. Straight men’s right to their natural sexual expression, for one. And with that, heterosexual women’s right to their natural sexuality, too.

What is a woman’s word worth?

While there’s some fun to be had at the expense of puritans, as there always has been, I’d urge feminists to reconsider their position on making everything child-friendly. Is that how you think of yourself, still? Children that need constant male protection? If you make it near impossible for men to make sexual passes at you, making it so that he cannot fully trust your consent, who will be making those decisions for you? Your dad? Is it going to be your closest male relative who decides who gets to fuck you? Or would you like your word to mean something, your demeanor to be considered that of a self-aware adult, or rather, that if you change your mind 20 years later, your change of heart will be rewarded by complete reputation destruction of the male you never even said a clear no to at the time?

Choices available for adults.

Now, adulthood is about making choices out of your legal options. It is not about being protected from all potential bad by a big brother entity. Adults should be able to choose on their own whether to follow a porn account, whether to work at a sexually charged workplace or create one, and adults should be allowed to choose how to conduct themselves in any given situation. Who to vote, what to think, and whether to go to church or not.

We shouldn’t assume we’re all cut from the same wood. What is your right is someone else’s limitation. YOU MUST CHOOSE what you want in this world and what kind of people you spend your days and nights with. You must live with the reality that “others” will choose something you don’t want or that “others” won’t do something you do. Your choices need not to be validated on a governmental level, I’d hope.

Parenting is about responsibility, but I don’t think they get permanently scarred if they accidentally see a picture of a cock.

When you become a parent, you take on the responsibility of other human beings. That’s how it is and has always been. You risk them being hurt, and you risk having to live with your children hurting. Some of us hate the thought so much we don’t have children – choices, you see. That said, you have to LIVE WITH IT. You have to manage the risks, but gosh could you lighten up a little bit?! You do your best and that’s all you can do. Everybody has to survive their parents first, the world second. The more protective you are, the harder it is for a child to know what the heck it is, and what to do in that world with CHOICES once they’re suddenly old enough to enter it.

You set your net nannies to maximum security and be with your kids as much as you can. That’s what you do. Still… I’m pretty sure they won’t be consuming porn 24/7 even if you weren’t looking. Last I checked, you believe children don’t have a sexual side, so why would they? Still, I’d personally want my 16-year-olds to be rather aware of what goes where and what men are like and how to say no to a man. I’d like my 16-year-olds to be able to tell when a guy is just dressed nice, you know? (And that the most GLARING warning sign of a bad guy is a pristine exterior… At least in our current time. Did YOU know? Do you know how to look a guy in the heart and see what makes him tick? You’re still looking at him in the suit, aren’t you?)

I’m not sure you need to be a hero.

You know how I used to feel like when I heard women cry about “being raped” or having been “sexually harassed”? I USED TO take her word for it. I used to feel awful for her, and believe 100% that her description of events is not only factually accurate but also what she believed happened. Now, I know women lie and also, that some women are TOO NAIVE to handle men. That they consider it sexual harrasment, akin to child abuse, if a grown man “grooms” as in seduces an adult female into sex with him. ADULT WOMEN DO NOT GET GROOMED. They get SEDUCED.

I find it appalling that by simply putting a spin on words will get COURTS judge against a guy who did nothing more wrong than his female partner did. If you choose to have sex with the boss for a promotion, it used to be called prostitution, now it’s called “being raped.” CHOICES, bitches. Choices.

Now I think twice before getting riled up over sexual misconduct allegations.

Now I think twice before I get riled up over any sexual misconduct event. I read her words carefully, and I want to hear HIS perspective of what happened, too. And I tend to lean on his version of the events by simple experience of how real men act with liberated, grown up women, who know their own minds. But in the odd occasion, he makes a suggestion to a stuck up woman who doesn’t seem to know her own mind, and that’s when things get nasty. She has a reputation to protect, as a feminist, and as a woman who “is not that kind of a girl,” not officially, at least.

A friend of mine used to say: “I’m not saying that every woman is a slut. I’m saying there’s a slut in every woman. It is your job to bring her out.” But when you bring the slut out of a prude, eventually, the prude is going to snap out of it and blame you for “grooming her.” Whether she should feel the right to or not.

That said… Let me ask you this.

Imagine companies could rate their office sexual policies with a scale of General, Moderate, and Adult. With a general rating, the place could just as well be a nursery, nothing sexual ever anytime for any reason. Moderate companies would allow mild sexual innuendo and for co-workers to date each other, and flirting openly with each other. Adult-rated companies could basically make their own rules and allow their workers to fuck out in the open as if it was a big sex party with some work to do, too, if they’d want to. If it’s legal in general, it’s all good, right? Which company would you work for?

You know what I’d choose, without a second thought. I might actually WANT TO work for a third party if my company was A-rated. It would make it worth getting up in the morning for. Do you think I’m the only one?

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