Connecting with your True Emotion Mirror(s) in spirit.

On this site, I refer to using a pendulum quite often, and I think I should probably give you a quick intro as to what they are and how they’re used. Basically, it is not much different to using Tarot cards – you’re connecting to the same entities and asking the same questions, but the cool thing about pendulums is that you can get clear answers in  your own spoken language and using a pendulum to connect you to your soulmate makes much more sense than using Tarot cards for that purpose.

There is one more thing that is different: a pendulum seems to defy the very laws of physics, which makes it a somewhat mysterious and even scary tool. Still, as it swings without being swung, it gives you a very clear confirmation that something is out there, and it is not anything you can quite easily explain. While it may not LOOK impressive to an onlooker who believes you’re swinging it yourself, it verifies to you that you’re ‘connected.’

What is a pendulum?

A pendulum itself is essentially just a weight at the end of a string. You can use any weight at all, such as a ring on a chain, a pair of small scissors and a rubber band, or a document clip on a piece of cotton, but if you have never tried it, it may be best to try an actual pendulum, such as the one in the photo. You can get started with any type stone at all, but you should try to find one that you feel good about, then start tweaking when you learn what you’re doing.

To get one, try eBay, AliExpress, or a local gemstone shop if you happen to have one nearby (the best option, for sure). Often, you can buy a few in bulk without costing much money, and if you want options, do that. They also make a great, inexpensive gift when you want to show others how to do it.

Connecting to your lovers in spirit

Try to find a peaceful place in mind, spirit, and physical location. It doesn’t really matter where you sit (powerlines and electronics are said to interfere with it, but I haven’t noticed that to be true.)

Hold the pendulum chain so it tangles down freely. The chain should not rest over any finger, but it should dangle freely so it can swing around freely if it will.

Calm and empty your mind, and put yourself in the state in which you’d meet your soul-bond lover alone for sex and cuddles. Don’t be shy. Your true lovers love the same romantic energy as you do. Create the most intimate feeling and call the man, men, woman, or women who belong in that circle to join you in it. In your mind, think: “Please, when you are here, allow the pendulum to swing for ‘yes.'” You may also say which way you want it to swing, but it may be better to let them decide. Then, speak as you feel to be natural, and ask for a no, then, maybe.

Stop the pendulum. (Be nice about it.)

Tell them you wish to talk to them ‘in spirit’ using tarot cards. Ask them if this is OK. (By swinging the pendulum the same way as they did with the first yes.)

Be very careful about who you allow to stay.

Speak only when you feel comfortable to do so. Whenever you feel like you’re speaking just to be polite to the spirit present, end the conversation. You can be polite about ending it, but end it.

If you don’t feel the feeling that you believe to be love (or a bigger love you imagined) don’t continue. It’s not VERY dangerous to, but you don’t need that conversation. This is one of those occasions when it’s good for you to just take my word for it. 😀 Because you don’t really need to know why, it’ll make it harder for you to stop in time. Just thank them for answering your call, and tell them, in your mind, that you were looking to speak to someone else.

ONLY EVER talk to a romantic lover.

I created a right mess not obeying this rule – not ever hearing this rule, either. Nobody warned me of this. Granted, nobody told me I could speak to my actual True Emotion Mirror (or Twin Flame as they’d call him) like this, either. ONLY EVER call on your True Emotion Mirrors, this connection is FAR TOO INTIMATE to be shared even with your Precious Soulmates, like maybe your mom and dad… Because the likelihood that you’ll have NO PRIVACY with the spirits who come to your space is high. Therefore, ONLY continue with spirits you feel a sexual and romantic intimacy with.

If you really want to be a psychic and channel, then, maybe, but you’ll need to be able to close the connection, otherwise, it’ll be maddening.

If it doesn’t work, don’t despair.

It doesn’t necessarily work the first time around. Your True Emotion Mirrors may have no idea how to make the pendulum swing yet, or feel certain they’re welcome to you. They maybe shy. You may call them by their name if you feel a connection to someone specific already, to make them trust that you mean them… As sometimes, these connections ignite the weirdest of ways so… They might not think that you mean the girl or guy you saw at the bus stop but didn’t speak to… When they are that girl or guy and fear they were the only one who felt it.

Enter Tarot Cards

Now, you might want to choose the romanticism of real paper tarot cards. Don’t bother reading the user manual or interpretations. The same idea works as with this website. The cards speak to you, and you alone.

In that intimate feeling, start talking to your True Emotion Mirrors and pick cards for an answer. You’ll find it amazing.

If you want to expand your horizons.

If you want to expand to talking to other people, talk to your True Emotion Mirror about it first. It’s like consulting your spouse of a major life decision. Do it together, even if he or she is in spirit only. Importantly: do not speak to anyone who doesn’t recognize your True Emotion Mirror(s) as your ultimate partner(s) in everything. Do not allow spirits who want to contest his or her position in your life (unless you want it contested of course.) Allow only people who you are VERY COMFORTABLE allowing in.

Advance to this direction with caution. The better you are at it, the more people want to barge in uninvited.

If they get in anyway, you’ll have to figure out how to force them out. Remember the tone of voice you used for your sibling or annoying friend when you were kids and you got fed up with them: “Oh quit it already!” It seems that spirits don’t really understand profanity too well, speak child-language with spirits who don’t get it.

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