Would you be willing to live under your own relationship rules?

Hypocrisy is demanding one person to do something for you that you wouldn’t do for another person under the same circumstances. While it’s one thing to have a fetish for inequality in a relationship – I can fuck others, but you can’t, for example – it’s another to demand a person who doesn’t like it to like it. When one person isn’t getting what they want out of a relationship, it’s ALWAYS a valid cause for rejection, EVEN IF what they want is a certain color hair or whatever gets them off or makes them feel loved.

Love is a game of rejection and exclusiveness. This is where inclusion laws do not apply. But. The premise of this post comes from the perspective of how people can see the same thing in a very different light:

“No matter how undesirable you are, fat, ugly, stupid, or old, you think it’s your right to have a relationship with whomever you fall in love with?!”

or

“No matter how undesirable you are, fat, ugly, stupid, or old, you think it’s your right to reject love offered to you as if you had choices?!”

Now, let’s examine the validity of these statements.

Suppose you’re the one who is NOT in love. Which statement do you believe now? Suppose the person in love with you is of the wrong gender, someone who you find completely boring, or sexually unattractive. Or romantically unattractive, by the way. NOW which statement do you agree with?

Would you be willing to live under your own rules, if everyone took it granted that a love or sex offered must be accepted without a fuss? If so, start or join some cult, but leave the rest of us alone.

Every time you expect someone to do something for you look in the mirror.

Whenever you’re accusing another person of mistreatment of you or someone else, look in the mirror and ask yourself if you would, and have done the same in their circumstances. Don’t focus on just them: “Haven’t I always loved them? Haven’t I always been there for them?” for instance. THAT IS NOT THE SAME THING. Ask yourself, when you are not at all attracted to a person, how many rights do you think that person you don’t love has over your love and life? How many favors do they have to do to you, for you to actually fall in love with them? Is there enough favors in the world for that? THAT is how they likely feel about you.

Now, you might claim that you’d love anybody who loves you and pursues you strong enough. I ask: would you? Would you really? Answer “yes” to that, and the spirit will certainly give you the gift of someone who loves you and pursues you strong. Then you’ll be happy, right? Despite all the other attractive people who might want you back, this is the bozo you must fall for because they love you. That’s what you’re promising the Universe.

Good luck, asshole.

 

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