If you feel attracted to someone, your first reaction should be responsibility for them, not right to them.

Whenever you are getting into ANY new relationship (friendships and business partnerships included), your first impulse should be to make sure you are not going to make their lives WORSE by being in it. You have to protect your friends from yourself. Second, you check whether they want the same thing out of life as you do. Third, you ask whether they love you as much as you love them.

If you clear all of those tests, NOW you are free to have a relationship.

If your first reaction is that you have A RIGHT to them, you should self-check immediately and see what kind of a shithead you are exactly. Now. Concessions: If you feel YOU belong to them, and they belong to you, it’s a True Emotion Mirror sign, but it’s still not a sign of “A RIGHT” to them. You still have to make those three checks above. Some soulmates are very well-connected and may be ready to break some rules, but that is advanced stuff. For the most part, you’ll have to check or risk the consequences of not doing that.

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