About the Savants* and the Normal Person* relationship ideals

The main difference between the Savants* and the Normal Person* are what they value in a relationship.

• In essence, the Normal Person* thinking ideal is: “I will never let you go no matter what!” (Greatest love is to never give up on a person no matter how much they fight back.)
• In contrast, the Savants* thinking ideal is: “I wish to know when I am not wanted and more in the way. I respect your need to be without me more than I need you to love me.” (The greatest love is to give people you love their freedom.)

This creates a clear conflict if these two get into a relationship together. That is why I’ve separated the ideal relationship types based on a thinker group primarily. One person tests whether or not they can trust a person by testing their willingness to let go of them if they want to go. The other person tries to prove their trustworthiness by NEVER letting go no matter what. This will lead to problems, sometimes insurmountable ones. The other feels trapped into a relationship they didn’t ask nor want when the other one tries to prove their worthiness. One feels loved and “taken seriously” when the other one fights to regain their freedom.

The Normal Person*/the Savants* relationships work ONLY when the Savants* is 100% committed to the Normal Person*. By the time the Savants* realizes 99.5% isn’t enough, the Normal Person* has already gotten into the mindset of “never letting go no matter what”. This may cause an abusive relationship to form, where the victim is sometimes the one throwing punches.

This is why the Normal Person*/the Savants* relationship often turns karmic and is something both thinker types would do wisely to avoid whenever possible. The only the Normal Person*/the Savants* relationship that cannot be avoided is between family members. This is bad enough without adding voluntary relationships, such as friendships and love relationships into the mix of drama.

The #1 danger to the Savants* happiness is the Normal Person* in love with them

I will put this very bluntly so that it will sink in. The Normal Person* are BAD NEWS for the Savants*. Here’s why: the Savants* approach their loved ones with respect. Unfortunately, this is a slow, and delicate process, and if ANYTHING goes wrong, it is wide open for an intrusion. When the Savants* True Emotion Mirror lovers are trying to get their relationship on track, the Normal Person* will easily derail their relationship because their idea of love is that you get who you want as long as you are persistent enough. You pester and bug them for long enough, and they’ll come around.

While the Savants* lover is trying to figure out how to approach the god or goddess they think their loved one is, the Normal Person* swoops in and twists the Savants*’s arm for a relationship. “I guess they are serious, then, they must want me more than the Savants*, I never get who I want so I’ll have who I can have instead.” They rationalize and marry the Normal Person*, only to find unhappiness, constant annoyance, and dissatisfaction out of it. The description of this relationship would be too long and depressing to get into here, but every the Savants* is likely to know what I mean without further detail. The Normal Person* thinks they’ve WON the love of the Savants*, when, in fact, they talked themselves into it against their better judgment.

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