Another Are You Actually In Love or is this some other kind of bullshit -test

Can you agree with this statement:

There is no shame in loving this person because they are awesome, and you aren’t too stupid or self-centered to notice.

If you feel it’s to YOUR CREDIT that you love them, it doesn’t sound like love but that you’re obsessed with them for some other reason? You want to “win” somehow by making them fall for you so that you can get over them? Like it’s your ego talking rather than true love? So you think they’re superior to you, and if you “won” their love, you’d feel like you’ve been uplifted in your social status?

Love means you praise someone else for everything they are. You don’t feel shame for it because it’s not your fault they’re amazing. You recognize them as the reason for your feelings, not that you are somehow a better person for loving them, which is another ego-reaction (narcissistic reaction) to another person. “I’m so amazing I can ‘love’ someone that low.”

There. Did your love survive the test?

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