Are we True Emotion Mirrors or are we just having issues?

True Emotion Mirrors are defined by their love for each other. Unfortunately, “love” is a word people interpret in different ways, for instance, as an act of giving love; as in if “you don’t love somebody,” it means you are not doing loving actions toward them, and that makes you feel less feeling of love for them, by their definition. True Emotion Mirror love, however, exists without any fuel, any action, or any virtue to make it so. It lights up from the first moment and will keep growing as time goes on.

Still, True Emotion Mirrors can have issues. You may have arguments, but you will never stop loving each other. You might try and walk out because you think, “this is insane,” but you don’t want to walk out. You know that if you did, you’d have to force yourself not to love them. You can even forget about a True Emotion Mirror, particularly if you walk out early enough. Still, if you’ve already had a meaningful relationship with them, even in a previous lifetime, you cannot really ever walk out on them after that. There’ll be a distance, but you won’t fall out of love or forget each other’s existence.

It is also incredibly difficult to say no to your True Emotion Mirror. You can’t really look them in the eye and tell them to fuck off, can you? Your true feelings for them are revealed in your eyes and you know it. If your True Emotion Mirror asks you to come back, you’ll have to fight every instinct you’ve got to not go back – if you intend to stay away, that is. I’m not telling you not to go back; I’m saying if you had made up your mind not to, you’d find it very difficult not to. Rather, I suggest you go back and figure it out.

But, how do you know you are True Emotion Mirrors, and the struggles are worth it, or it’s worth holding onto hope?

Are you afraid you’re in love with them because you truly don’t like them?

You might still falter between whether you are in love with a fantasy of who they could be rather than the person they are… Just decide to allow yourself to act on whichever result you find and look at it. If this IS your True Emotion Mirror, you should go back. Therefore, even if you’re afraid you’re still in love with them, when you truly hate the thought, allow yourself to feel it for whatever it is. Open your eyes; the truth will set you free. You are NOT in love with a person you are not in love with. You can trust that, even if you find him or her oh-so-very attractive – in some ways.

People have an amazing ability to “photoshop” the people they’re in relationships with to match their own ideals and expectations. People are doing it to you, and you’re doing it to other people. Now, take out the filters and makeup and see them for who they truly are – your True Emotion Mirror would still be the most amazing person you’ve met, and more now that your eyes are open.

You know you don’t love them, but they don’t believe you?

In the simplest form, however: if you don’t love them if you seriously don’t want to go back to them, and if you feel rather nauseous at the idea of this persistent lover of yours wanting you back, that’s not your True Emotion Mirror, and the only issue you’ve got is that at some stage you thought you might be. If you don’t feel love for them but rather feel hate or disgust or that “I cannot believe I fell for that shit” feeling, it’s something else.

Sometimes you may see your True Emotion Mirror in another person, and you may go for that person thinking that the similarities run deeper than the skin – you may fall for someone who is, on the surface, much like your True Emotion Mirror, and the difference becomes clear over time.

If you are not tempted to go back for any other reason than to quit them whining about it, to give it another go simply because this person is pestering you for another chance… When you don’t feel your heart melting but rather you feel annoyed like there’s a giant fly or mosquito you can’t swat dead in your life… A True Emotion Mirror’s pleas of reconciliation should make your heart melt and eyes water… If that isn’t happening, just walk away and let them sort out their end of it on their own.

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