As a man, you’re used to being needed, but you don’t know what to do when you’re wanted.

This is not your fault. This is what you’re a victim of. I don’t need to victimize you, either, you’re a fucking survivor anyway, but what you need to do for yourself is to notice it. It is absolutely one of the key-issues True Emotion Mirrors face; your True Emotion Mirror, your true soul-bond lover doesn’t necessarily need you for anything… She wants you. To her, you are luxury. Your company, your sense of humor, your way of being in your body, to her, is amazing. She doesn’t need you to make her decisions for her, pay her bills, or to drill holes on her walls, but she needs you in her life just so she can be happy. Not for someone taking care of her – she can do that herself – but because you’re there, being the stupid you, cracking moronic jokes that make her day… Or whatever weird it is that you do. And, without any doubt, she wants you for sex. She wants all of you for sex, not just the body but the whole connection of you.

How do I know? That fits the definition of a True Emotion Mirror. You have one somewhere, probably a few optional ones, actually, your perfect partner. The one who doesn’t need you to change, but who needs you to be who you are, to not compromise, to not ask for less but to ask for more – the one who can give you the more, and ask you for nothing, the one who you don’t need, but who you want. The one who, to you, is luxury. Too good to be true – like you are to her.

Please just consider it.

You are that to someone.

Even if you stink sometimes. ;p

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