At the end of the day, do as you do, love as you love.

I’ve spent 15 years 24/7 of daily spirit conversations on top of all of my other lifetimes trying to figure out how life works. How relationships work. I’m good at them, don’t get me wrong, in some sense, even if there are things I still needed to learn the hard way. My main lesson: “Speak for yourself.”

People don’t define love the same way. What is sexy, or what is abuse, even? Whenever a person is speaking about how to love or what is right or wrong, trust me they are speaking for themselves only. If you are interested in how they feel love, listen, but if they are not one of your loved ones, store it as a curiosity, not as a fact.

People will get hurt. You will get hurt. It’s OK, sometimes it’s pleasurable. It’s possible to learn to enjoy life’s hardships like a BDSM session. Some of us like a light spanking, while others go for something so cruesome government files on the investigation of it would be sealed.

The most important part is to get to know how YOU think in relation to everyone else. What makes your thinking unique? The labels, helpful at best, completely off at worst. You will hurt some people while having the best of intentions, and others want to save you, and they drown you like picking up a fish on the ship deck so it could breathe. People’s needs are different, and we’ll get banged up. No shame in it. Just get back on your feet and go look for another trap to walk into.

You’ll fight against some people for as long as they try to push you off your course, and you’ll go with the flow when that’s really your best option at the time. You’ll lie when you must, and sometimes you must lie all the time. There is time for everything under the Sun, the Bible says, and it is, perhaps, the truest of things the Bible has said.

Just do your best to not… It doesn’t matter. Just live the best you can. Try to enjoy the show. Find out what you like and fill up your lives with it.

“A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.”

George Bernard Shaw

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