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Basal Principle Mirror*

The Basal Principle Mirror* is a subcategory to Trail Companions*. They are only partially matching, but the parts that ARE in alignment are non-conflicting to you (or the comparative person). You see eye-to-eye on everything that matters in a friendship or in a relationship, but you are not exactly CRAZY for each other, even though you might be very fond of each other.

One of the strengths of this connection is that this gives you an alternate perspective to life and life situations. They are a great sounding board to you, because they are a very different personality with a respect to your differences, so they don’t (tend to) attack you  or try to alter you, but they can offer you a fresh perspective without taking it entirely personally if you don’t take their advice – it was merely a suggestion anyway.

Basal Principle Mirrors* are usually the Savants* with this attitude toward all relationships; you are your own person, I am mine, I respect your form, you respect mine… The true “Namaste” idea; we are two different people, we both have our path, but we can love each other in a non-attached, spiritual level.

The Basal Principle Mirrors* are non-possessive, most of the time, but can get toxic IF and when one of them starts to feel desperate for a life partner and wants to make their Basal Principle Mirror* into one against their will. This can turn them into an inflamed state and into an antagonist Mirror Spirit, but that is always the case when someone tries to force their will on another person. The Basal Principle Mirrors*, by definition, don’t do that.

The Potential True Emotion Mirrors MAY GET STUCK in the Basal Principle Mirror* -mindset if they fear they don’t have the RIGHT to alter the traits and the way of thinking of their Potential True Emotion Mirror. As the Basal Principle Mirror* relationship is extremely valuable, many people fear to step into the True Emotion Mirror realm from here, even if they felt there was a True Emotion Mirror connection to be found with this person. As two the Savants* who have a very different personality and specific values will easily erupt into flaming fireballs if one tries to force the relationship into a True Emotion Mirror or Lovers’ Choice Soulmate* realm, the Savants* with a Potential True Emotion Mirror may fear going there – one of the biggest reasons for True Emotion Mirror “running”.

This connection can only exist between the Savants*

The Normal Person* have two possible modalities; “let’s bond” or “I hate you”, but the median is required for sustaining this relationship. “I like you, but I also respect you and understand we are not alike enough to bond permanently and deeply without causing damage to each other.”

The Normal Person* want to make intimate friends out of everyone who they like. This makes it impossible for them to keep the connection at the level that is required for Basal Principle Mirrors*, as they will ALWAYS try to influence their friends’ thinking too much to be considered a Basal Principle Mirror*. The Savants* will know to at least back off and apologize if they cross this border, but the Normal Person* don’t have this ability or instinct, they simply push on in their attempt to break the boundaries and make true, deep friends out of their Basal Principle Mirrors*.

As this type of a friendship requires self-restraint, tolerance of emotional distance from a person you like, respect, and even admire, and acceptance that you’re not always right about everything, it is impossible for the Normal Person* to maintain in the long term. Sometimes, the Savants* manage to FORCE the Normal Person* into this relationship type, but it doesn’t come naturally to them so this would not be an authentic Basal Principle Mirror* bond, as their basic value of ‘respect’ vs. ‘intimacy’ is in a direct collision course, putting them easily in the Main Trap relationship mode.

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