Basics of the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology

The Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology is an attempt to identify and describe all relationship types known to humanity (so far). Sounds impossible? Well, yeah, it is a bit. I don’t know if I have gotten it all, but I will add to it when I find one that doesn’t fit the existing descriptions. Yet, it is the most advanced relationship typology of any kind there is… I think. 😀 It takes into account both the spiritual aspects and the psychological aspects, and unlike psychological theories, it runs in the context of eternal life and soul bonds, and unlike spiritual theories, it explains relationship problems with psychology rather than obscure external influences of astrology or numerology or “divine timing”, giving you the tools to actually do something about your relationship outcomes rather than passively waiting for your problems to be “solved”.

The way our relationships develop has nothing to do with an external force or God telling you to “be in love with that person because I created that one for you.” (A) god may point out someone to you, but only because he knows you WILL love them, not because he’s telling you to. You know how you make friends in this lifetime (or others do, at least, if you’re one of those people. 😉 ) and you see how they get closer and closer as time goes on. Now, as immortal reincarnating souls, we have an endless amount of time at our disposal, some people get closer to one another than others, some love each other more than others and as we keep doing this, we get more and more tangled into the same people and relationships that we seek out or surrender to.

Not all of these soul-bond relationships are healthy or wanted.

It is a misconception to think that just because someone is your soulmate, they’re yours, somehow. That is not at all the case.

Some connections are downright abusive and self-serving. Most of our relationships are, by and large. It is rare to have a relationship that is completely based on true, genuine, deep love and adoration that you both feel for one another. Love like this it exists, but it won’t be able to come into lives of people who want relationships for solely self-serving purposes, regardless of the other person’s needs or wants; obviously.

Most people still form relationships in order to survive and to be physically safe, not because they actually enjoy the other person’s company.

Making the differences clear

The Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology attempts to make a clear description of these relationship types; what are they truly based on. It discusses “the symptoms” of love that is based on the need to survive and the belief that taking advantage of another person’s kindness and sense of duty is real love. I study the symptoms of true friendship and what are the symptoms of the real, true, authentic love that exists only between people who are selfish only in the need of enjoying the others company. They match in their thoughts, their fetishes and everything that they genuinely are. They want to be together, not by a sacrifice, but because nothing in this world could be better than a life with this specific person.

Clearing societal traumas that hurt our ability to trust true love

The Typology also dives deep into the reasons why people run away from these great feelings of love. The society has altered the way we think about love. We must make an effort to clear societally imposed psychological traumas from ourselves. We must heal ourselves enough to give and receive true authentic love.

The purpose

The purpose of the Typology is to rekindle true romantics and sexual people’s trust that they CAN have both in one person. They can even have both in several people, as the typology is polyamory friendly and naturally accepts love connections between different sexual orientation people.

However… I have focussed on straight and bisexual, and polyamorous love a lot, due to my own obsessions. It is all applicable to heterosexual monogamous relationships, but I consider them a little bit of a no-brainer so I do not focus on them much. ANything that can happen in the plural, can also happen in the singular, and vice versa.

Other Uses

The Typology has a lot of uses, not only personal but also professional, particularly in the creative fields. Although you can write a pretty good love story of the top of your hat, understanding love profiles will give you a whole other angle and depth to your writing or expression of love.

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