Be careful who you befriend: You’re not making friends for yourself only, but everyone who you will ever love in the future, too.

It is not a good piece of advice to keep your friends close and your enemies even closer – unless you’re the Dog Thinker. Then, you practically have no other choice. A the Cat Thinkers must know, that if the Dog Thinker wants your friendship, it’s possibly because they consider you that enemy. That said, your soft heart will get you into trouble every time, so rather than thinking yourself in this situation: “I can handle her/him, I’ll be OK,” remember that you’ll be letting this person in the lives of everyone you will ever meet after the fact… That includes your future lovers and your future children.

Do not ever demand your child to start making friends with people they don’t genuinely like because you want to teach them to be nice people; it is not wise to lower a person’s natural boundaries and limitations, the instincts that keep them from befriending abusive people. The way we are is already in a person before we were even born. We’re all eternal reincarnating beings, and every POS has also looked cute cooing in their cradle. Do not underestimate a child’s ability to sense problems. Their life depends on it. If they say they don’t like someone, bank it.

No, they’re possibly not bad people to everyone.

People who you do not like or your child doesn’t like are not necessarily bad people. They may become someone else’s best friend, their true best friend. But not all people are compatible. We’re not ISO standards despite the grand division to the Dog Thinker and the Cat Thinkers.

We all need to find OUR friends, but if YOU love a certain person instinctively, they’re more than likely a good friend to have for anyone else you will ever instinctively love… And the opposite is true, too; if you dislike someone instinctively, then there’s a good chance the people you love instinctively will dislike them too – for a good reason. We REMEMBER things in some weird way; we KNOW certain people already. And those people know us. They can push your buttons, your parents’ buttons… To get what they want. To get us to act in a way they want us to act.

You like someone but you can see why others might not.

Then, maybe you do know your True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates, and you know they might have an issue with someone you absolutely love. You can tell what they react to, but you know the real reason behind that person’s outward dislikability. Now. Destination Soulmates* will have the same value system. You’ll be able to decide whether someone is worth bringing in and talking others into seeing them in a more realistic, positive light.

Now, change your wiring and stop putting yourself and your loved ones in harm’s way because you need to appear virtuous. Quit being a narcissist.

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