Biggest danger to True Emotion Mirror relationship are concerned parents

It is said, that True Emotion Mirrors will normally reunite only in their 50’s and 60’s. There’s a reason for this; your parents. Once they die, and will no longer consider it their personal duty to make sure you’re not properly fucked (which is exactly what this is about) they will keep your True Emotion Mirrors away from you thinking they’re protecting you – especially if you’re a female. If you want a happy love life, make sure you’re born as an orphan, to parents who couldn’t care less about you, or to parents with a healthy attitude toward sex themselves. (I’m being a little bit sarcastic, to tell you the truth.)

The trouble is EVERYONE has issues with sexual family members. NOBODY wants to think about their children, let alone their parents, having sex, therefore… Well. We’re in a bit of a pickle.

Parents should at least hold a healthy indifference toward their child’s sex life. You have to be able to not think about it, or to accept it exists but hold it as something that you don’t truly need to know about. If you’re a progressive parent, just be happy if your child seems happy in that area and other than that, keep your nose out of it. It is NOT your duty to protect a grown child from sexual relationships or to even know what is happening there.

Do not let a family member talk you away from your True Emotion Mirror

If you are head over heels in love with your True Emotion Mirror (or anyone, really), don’t let yourself be talked out of that relationship by “a concerned” friend, family member, or similar, WITHOUT asking your partner how they feel about it. Do not allow people to treat your partner like she or he was deranged for wanting you… You know, heterosexual women are not DERANGED if they want a sexual relationship with a man, but they often get treated as if they had issues… If they like men “too much” people WANT TO see it as “daddy issues” or “nymphomania” or even “being a witch” before it’s about anything healthy. One would assume people are comfortable with the idea of heterosexuality, but they TRULY are not.

Do not let yourself be swayed to think that you are taking advantage, ONLY IF your partner themselves asks you to go, THEN go, but never due to someone else “doing them a favor” by “talking to you” because “they would never ask you to do this”. They would never ask you to leave them because that’s the last thing they’d want!!

Parents who want to get in the way of true love are downright abusive

It is MANIPULATIVE to pretend to be a concerned parent or a friend, in order to drive a wedge between lovers who are about to ride into the sunset together, simply because somebody can’t let go of their NOSTALGIA or dreams of a perfect grown child (whatever that means)… Which is the other side to the coin of having issues with sexuality. Parents would rather remember the “good old days” of their daughter playing horsey in the back yard, to think she’d now rather ride a grown man all the way home… So to speak. 😉

Parents MUST prepare themselves for the time their child grows up, as it is ABUSIVE to require a grown child to suppress their sexuality and romantic needs due to their parent’s discomfort with those things.

Also, it might be abusive for a parent to pretend to be “open to this” and pushing their child into sexual relationships just to prove they’re now very much in the know and want to help their child get over their “insecurities” eventually forcing them into sex with people they’re not comfortable with just so the child then boosts the parents’ reputation as open-minded and modern parents.

Mind you, parents who get this way mostly need a hug

This is one of the few “do as I preach, not as I do” -pieces of information. If your parents get this way, more than likely they just need a hug and reassurance you won’t forget them when they get old. However, if your relationship with your parents is as inflamed as mine is by now, I won’t judge a single soul for letting their parents die old and alone at the poor house if that may be. I truly don’t. But it’s just a FYI kind of thing, IF you still CAN bring yourself to reassure your parents or friends that despite this new thing in your life they’ll still be in it, do it. If you can even LIE in that way, do it, as often, also, they just need to PRETEND as if they’re not being completely replaced and abandoned.

However, do with that part what you will, I will personally shove it up my butthole rather than follow it.

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