Cat Type Thinking* narcissism is suppressed pride

… where as Lover-thinking* narcissism is about an inflated pride and self-confidence.

Both are about false self, one negative self-image, one is positive self-image – over-positive. And when the Idealists* avoids falling into Lover-thinking* narcissism they land into an attempt to suppress one’s own ego; “selfishness” when it’s what’s fair, pride when it’s realism… and it gives this icky emotional vibe in people around them.

There is a cure for Cat Type Thinking* narcissism: Quit doing that. Just be as awesome as you are and stop limiting yourself for the benefit of others. Be as likeable as you like and picky about who you gonna love as you are.

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