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How the selfless party to a True Emotion Mirror relationship might actually be the problem.

Logically, it makes sense that selfishness is the death of a True Emotion Mirror relationship. However, compared to all others, the problem with this relationship is that if you were hedonistic and “selfishly” going after what you both want, you’d both want the same thing. You both may think the other is “too good” for […]

I don’t think you can brag so much you’ll put off your True Emotion Mirror.

While modesty and humility are good traits when dealing with OTHER people, with your True Emotion Mirror, I don’t think you can brag so much you’d put them off you. They may start cringing when you do your best bragging, but I don’t think you can do it so much they’ll completely fall out of […]

You don’t BECOME a generalized True Emotion Mirror. You FIND yours and then, you are theirs.

You’re doing it wrong if you are trying to find out how to become a generic True Emotion Mirror. NOBODY is a generic True Emotion Mirror, but you can BECOME an Enigma Soulmate. An Enigma Soulmate has generic traits that people in general find attractive. Superstar traits. Enigma’s True Emotion Mirror is another Enigma, but […]

(Online) Scam or a True Emotion Mirror?

I have a bit of a love affair with online dating, I must admit. I find it a romantic idea, that you’ll meet someone you had no way of meeting otherwise through this thing… Meeting of minds so similar, at vast distances, not because you were both raised the same way, but because you both […]

So what if your True Emotion Mirror doesn’t fit every TrEmoR sign there is?

SIGNS are just that: Signs. They are not rules written in stone. It is not a law. Signs. They are more like signs at a shopping center than traffic signs at that. They’re typically used symbols of something other than something you need to absolutely live by. The only sign that truly matters is that […]

How do you know someone is your real friend?

We all struggle with this sometimes. One way or another. “Am I supposed to love them because they obviously love me so” or “does that person ignore me even though I love them so?” “Are they here for the stuff and things I do for them or for me?” Richer or poorer. Up or down, […]

One-sided interaction doesn’t make you friends.

You laugh at their jokes. You admire them. Their presence brings you joy. They teach you things, and you learn from them. BUT. You rarely even attempt to make them laugh. You couldn’t teach them a thing; if you did, it would be one small lesson for 100 big ones going the other way. They […]

How do you get into the inner circle? What do you need to be or do?

So, ‘the inner circle’ of cool people, celebrities, whoever, and how to get into them differs from the Survivalist* and the Idealists*. If the inner circle is Cat Type Thinking*, the Idealists* knows what it takes to get in – but the center of the circle may not realize they are in […]

How do you know that the True Emotion Mirror separation phase is coming to an end?

You may start prepping signs for yourself right away. Make notes as to what needs to happen so that you can happily move on from whatever situation you are in now, such as a Trail Companion* relationship. You might already know things. “My husband needs to fall in love with his True Emotion Mirror just […]

The Difference Between A True Emotion Mirror relationship and the Savage Spirit Mirror.

Both of these relationships are “the ultimate” relationship, based on a dynamic that keeps drawing the partners together. This dynamic, particularly the True Emotion Mirror one, can be pushed off the rails by assumptions about “men” and “women.” Still, a would-be Savage Spirit Mirror can easily get tangled up with someone wrong because they get […]

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