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Is it abuse or real love?

As always, nothing in life is black and white. We should never judge one thing based on one similarity between two things or in this case, two relationships. It is also often very difficult to see who is the victim and who is the abuser, and this is often a differing point of view between […]

Setting up a blog – Celebrity Edition

My spine chills when I think what it would be like to not be in control of your own official blog if I was a celebrity. The thought TERRIFIES me. To allow other people talk about you far and wide, and then put your trust in some sleazy reporter to get your message out there. […]

How and why naturally polyandrous andophile men cheat

One more rock n’ roll celebrity love story wiser, I got such a clear idea of why the polyandrous androphile men (which is, essentially, every rock star known to humankind, potential being, that I have missed the odd few polygynous rock stars out there, because, essentially, they don’t exist on my personal radar,) cheat. (If […]

“To be popular” means very different things to different people

As the Survivalist* change their mind through popular opinion and the Idealists* by their own reasoning and logical arguments with others, their attraction go fame whether as a fan or as a celebrity also stems from entirely different through processes. The Survivalist* are always looking to others for an opinion. “How do […]

Why can’t I stop thinking about someone?

I want to start this by saying, that sometimes our attention is held by a specific individual for no apparent reason at all and you feel you can’t stop thinking about them (or, in fact, something). It can be a celebrity, I might add, but it can also be anyone at all in your life. […]

the Survivalist* idea of love: Gifts mean an eternal bond

This is one of the biggest differences in the thinking patterns that create terribly troublesome karmic bonds, and that is the motivations with which we give gifts. The Idealists* give because they can. There is no other reason or motivation to it, they simply give because there are people who could use their help. […]

The two thinking types that cause relationship problems

NOTE 2022: This post is one of the first drafts of the Survivalist* (Sameness Thinker) / the Idealists* (Difference Thinker) differentiation, and is public just to show where I started from. While there are no huge errors in the post, the emphasis has changed a little from “sameness/difference” to “protection of others/protection of […]

You are not too young to know true love

This is the fist thing I want you to know. A 6-year old is more likely to know true love than a 40-year old is. You know yourself better at 17 than you know yourself at 40, just that you don’t have quite the experience yet, but not all experience is beneficial your self-actualisation. Most […]

polygamous True Mirrors – how to turn from monogamy to polygamy?

Going forth from monogamy to polygamyORpolygynandry((Depending on context. Some time ago, I used the term polygamy to mean either the generic concept of polygamous marriage or a MM+FF+ -type marriage or poly-committed relationship.)), go bravely but not foolishly, with open eyes and an open heart, with trust in the Universe to bring you your True Mirrors, hold back your enthusiasm and don’t risk your relationship simply because there’s too many people wanting polygamyORpolygynandry((Depending on context. Some time ago, I used the term polygamy to mean either the generic concept of polygamous marriage or a MM+FF+ -type marriage or poly-committed relationship.)) and too little opportunities to live this life style. Support them but not “marry” them. Steady on your feet.

Who is Michael Jackson’s True Emotion Mirror?

“I don’t think I even knew what a True Emotion Mirror means, to me it was more like a Valentine – so if anyone asked me if I am their True Emotion Mirror, I must have understood it to be more like ‘Valentine’ than One True Love… ‘Would you be my Valentine?'”

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