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Tuesday, April 9th, 2024 at
4:05 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: expectations, Narcissism
There are few realities that people must accept in order to remain calmer in life. If you have unrealistic expectations of other people, you get disappointed a lot. You feel VIOLATED when people are treating you fairly or quite predictably. For instance… Expecting people to respect your pronouns and having a massive emotional response every […]
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Tuesday, April 9th, 2024 at
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April 5, 2025 Tags: Attachment Styles, Embracing Vulnerability, Emotional Boundaries, intimacy, Narcissism, relationships, Sexual Energy, Trust Issues, Vulnerability
When you have a fear of intimacy, you run from relationships that are actually available to you and cling to those that are not. That makes the relationship very superficial and thus manageable for someone who has a fear of intimacy. They will never have to measure up to the expectations of a spouse or […]
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Saturday, March 30th, 2024 at
7:02 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024
A lot of civilized society functions based on trusting people to do the right thing and to be respectful. While we cannot really tell a criminal to stop stealing “because it’s rude” or a rapist to stop raping because “men need to respect women,” we can expect a level of conduct from civilized people. And […]
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Friday, March 22nd, 2024 at
4:59 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024
Correcting people, raising children, and making bad people good is a balance. If you never put boundaries on another person’s behavior, they’ll always take advantage of you, mistreat you, and expect YOU to be good to them while they get to do whatever they want. If, in turn, you’re always hard and unkind to another […]
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Monday, February 12th, 2024 at
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December 30, 2024 Tags: Celebrity, Internet
So you have a pile of fan mail delivered to you on a regular basis. You know the gist of most of it before you open the damned things. How should you weed through the pile? Imagine the kind of person you’d like to hear from. Imagine what kind of an envelope they’d use. Would […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:54 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024
What you think is your unapproachable, unreachable Moon in the sky may be another person’s annoying constant. That is to say that the only difference between you getting it and not getting it is the wrong attitude. You CAN have it. The Moon is someone else’s mundane. The expected rubbish. Basically, another man’s junk is […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:54 am in Australia - Last edit on
December 30, 2024 Tags: Personal
While some celebrities keep their private life private, others talk about theirs quite happily. This baffles the mind of the Normal Person*who doesn’t understand why anyone would let their private lives be scrutinized in that manner. However, celebrities who like to talk about their private lives are the Savants*, and it belongs to the […]
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Posted on
Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:54 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: flirting, hope, love
Imagine you’re a celebrity, gorgeous, talented, and amazing. At your fan meeting, you flirt with all the ugly girls or guys, because you think they would NEVER take your flirtation seriously, and there would be no press coverage of “you having found new love” because it is obvious your interest isn’t real, it’s just fun. […]
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Posted on
Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:53 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Narcissism
There are people, in increasing numbers these days, who choose to spend their lives being offended. A feeling of offense comes from realizing that another person holds a negative view of you or someone you like. Sometimes the negative suggestion is imagined; another person points out a purely neutral trait of yours or another person, […]
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Posted on
Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:53 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Narcissism
Some people are literally turned on by their spouse doing domestic duties. They should marry from within that group. Your authentic way of being is unnatural to another person. Don’t let them brainwash you into their natural; your inauthentic. Love is: “I want all of your individual emotions for myself; then, we’ll have mutual feelings […]
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