Celebrity; when you get a lot of fan mail… With romantic and sexual suggestions inside… And you want to consider some.
So you have a pile of fan mail delivered to you on a regular basis. You know the gist of most of it before you open the damned things. How should you weed through the pile?
Imagine the kind of person you’d like to hear from. Imagine what kind of an envelope they’d use. Would they decorate it? Leave it blank? If you open it, what would be in it? Would it be thick or thin? A card or a long letter? Expensive paper, plain? You might even imagine the perfect letter and see if it will appear in your mailbox sooner than later when your True Emotion Mirror picks up on your request.
At any rate, I’d completely go by instinct. Maybe develop your psychic ability for the purpose of picking the right letters to open and focus on. Perhaps, once you know how to read these cards, you’ll also be equipped to pick the right envelope.
Less metaphysically, if you actually read some…
You’ll notice that normal people with a romantic interest understand two things; they know looks matter, but they also know that sending a photo is very… Very tacky. They will more likely add an Instagram handle or a Googlable name, even though that might seem advertisy… You might not want to take it that way. Is it okay that you Google them to see if you can find a photo before answering? YES. Yes, it is. It is an ENTIRELY different thing to get a love confession from someone who has nothing to lose and someone who clearly fears making a fool out of themselves, and what they have online can tell you a lot about that person.
Anything that a person has put online publicly accessible is free for you to check out. It’s there for that very reason, especially if they’ve included a calling card or any contact information.
They may feel awkward, too.
Do not underestimate the feeling of awkwardness in “a fan” who are your True Emotion Mirror. They ARE your genuine equal (apart from fame and fortune maybe) but they have to act like a fan up to an extent.
EVERYONE who contacts you wants to hear from you.
You can rest assured that everyone who contacts you wants to hear from you, even if they don’t say as much. The only exception is if there simply isn’t any information in the letter to enable you to do it, but even if they have a name and state or something, they WISH against wishing that you’ll contact them.
To be fair, not all of them want romantic attention from you, but the chances are that 80% of them wish that. And a percentage of those who “don’t” still do, just to feel like they got to reject a celebrity. (Imagine the rush.)
If a person says “I don’t want anything from you” notice that’s not necessarily true. “Want” is different to “expect,” but often used interchangeably.
What if the letter is INSANE but you wish it was true?
So imagine someone tells you they’re your True Emotion Mirror or Twin Flame, and they’re describing schizophrenic episodes with you in the epicentre of them, but instead of feeling creeped out, you feel like this is actually true, CONTACT THEM. Use a reasonable amount of caution, but see about the sender. Follow your instincts.
If you’re CREEPED THE FUCK OUT, burn the damned letter. (I mean seriously. Burn it… Unless you feel like you have to keep it for evidence, in that case, hand it to your security personnel.) Nonetheless, if it creeps you out, SHOW IT, even if there’s nobody there. Express how you feel, follow your instinct. Act as if they were in the room in spirit. (Sorry the veering to the metaphysical.) Even answer these messages out loud, alone in the room but talk to the sender, even if it feels a bit nuts at first.
What if there is nothing but one message from a potential True Emotion Mirror?
Your True Emotion Mirror may not be pining for you, even if you think they would be. They might only ever send you a letter to test the waters, maybe two, three, one a year -sort of rate if that, not really believing it will amount to anything. They also don’t want to stalk you and be creepy. They may just tell you that this is the situation and leave it to luck to see if you pick it up…
Read nothing to the LACK of letters, they’re… Not many of the celebrity True Emotion Mirror (I believe to be real) I’ve spoken to have even attempted to contact their True Emotion Mirror celeb… And even the ones who have, certainly don’t give me the stalker-vibe. Many of them seem to think along the lines of “if spirit wants him/her to find the letter, he/she’ll find it.”
If there’s more than one person that you think might be a True Emotion Mirror?
We all have several potential True Emotion Mirrors and near TrEmoRs. You may also be polygamous by your natural leaning even though you might have not noticed it. Emotionally, feel if the two people in question might be linked to each other, too, and how?
Maybe consult a psychic who specializes in Twin Flames (preferably True Emotion Mirrors, however.) MIND YOU, a Twin Flame psychic maybe absolutely 100% convinced there can’t be more than one Twin Flame per person, and that’s just factually not true. However, they’ll struggle to answer which one is your actual Twin Flame if their ego hangs onto the “fact” that there can only be one.
Still, ask them. See what they say. Ask another. Even if they’re confused, they may give you good information. Ask the psychic if a) These two people are spiritually linked to each other, b) how are they linked to you, if at all. C) Ask for any past life visions.
(How to pick your psychic? Find one that you simply like by their photo if you have one available.)
Polygamy
You know I am the biggest supporter of spiritually bound polygamy. HOWEVER, whenever there’s a group of lovers, there’ll always be those who are nowhere near compatible with you, but who want in anyway because “free love.” Sometimes, these want-to-be-includeds are spiritually connected with you, without it meaning a love connection. Karmic soulmates, rather than True Emotion Mirrors.
Now, which is which is determined solely by how you feel about it. More than one man for one woman? More than one woman to one man? Mix of both genders? One of those, but without this other person?
Notice your wishes.
When considering these, notice that you may wish you’d find your true love, right? (We all do, dear.) You can have two kind of wish-I’ve-found-the-one: “I want this to be the one but I fear they’re too good to be true.. but it feels so, so good,” and “I wish this was the one because I’m tired of searching and want to convince myself that this disappointing thing is true love, but it feels safer than being head-over-heels in love again.”
Do I need to spell out which feeling is the right one?
What about “never date a fan”?
I’d say ONLY date your fans, but with caution. Those who you feel are your intellectual and artistic equal, not those who have a dumb look on their face and can’t say anything meaningful to you. Date those who have an ability to give back, not those who just want to bask in your glory.
What if I have doubts?
Depends what do you doubt? Which part of you doubts? The heart or the head? If it’s the heart, what is the doubt? Fear you’ll get hurt BADLY here, or doubt that you actually can love that person.
Rulebook.
You decided on a 100 point check list to never do again or something, right? “I’ll never date another foreigner. I’ll never date another blonde. I’ll never date a woman with children…” Etc.
You’ve read my blog cover-to-cover…. Hahah. No. Listen to my blog. It’s pretty good. 😀 It NEVER advices you to go against your own gut feeling or instinct… Except when your gut instinct is 100% selfish without having any consideration to the other party, that is.
Now, this person comes around and you feel… “FUCK THAT LIST, I want this!” Which is more important, the list or the feeling? Always follow your blissful feelings. They’re always good to follow… even if they are taking you to your next life lesson. Just be aware what that lesson might be exactly. “You cannot find true love,” is not the message.
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