Charm your way to your True Emotion Mirror(s)

I woke up to an epiphany this morning. I and my True Emotion Mirrors are also all Libertine* Spirits. We are the people who tend to be objects of false hopes and dreams that will never actualize; one-sided love. We have one common trait, regardless of how different we might be otherwise, and I bet this is true for all Libertine* Spirits; We are very charming. 😉 We know how to make people smile, feel good about themselves, feel entertained, and even loved. We are mostly in a good mood and never try to take advantage of other people; we are conscientious and helpful. While all this sounds excellent, it has a dark side: We attract many people who want us to prove we love them more than anybody else, even against all common sense.

Many of us feel pulled into a group of Trail Companions* who need us more than anybody else. A part of the reason why I am writing this blog is to appease these Trail Companions*, while many of my TrEmoRs are doing the same or similar thing in their lives. We are made feel like we OWE attention, love, and teaching to those who have less of this knowledge. For free, obviously. Preferably with us donating money to those we already help, too. When we do, these people kind of form a circle around us to claim as their own and refuse to let anyone who threatens their position into that circle, namely, our True Emotion Mirrors.

In a vision, I saw one of my TrEmoRs being surrounded by his jealous family members with a clear message: “We won’t let him go.” Anger flared in me, and I snarled at them: “I will CHARM MY WAY to him!”

I have never used my charm as a weapon, only as a tool. But tell you what, sometimes you have to allow yourself to be charming just to break some walls from between yourself and your True Emotion Mirror; you must allow yourself to be what you are: Charming, to even people with who you might not be in love with.

We have a tendency to put up walls and act aggressively against too many suitors, friend-requests, and attention-seekers, you know? Our online profiles read basically: “Don’t bother me with your attention; I’m not interested in you, you, you, or you.” In fact, in one of my profiles, I made fun of this by making my profile photo with the text “fuck off, no, not you, you, come here” because I often felt like a traffic cop trying to keep the right ones in and the wrong ones out.

Don’t do this. Instead, be as nice and charming as you feel natural to be. Allow people to fall in love with you. Make friends, dozens and dozens of them. Make them want to impress you with the cool friends they have so that when they lack charm, they’ll pull up their go-to charmer and introduce you to them – and be ready to make a new friend quickly. When you find the ones you love, let others see your chemistry, your charming way of being together, and let them acknowledge they can’t compete. Don’t tell them; show them.

Friend zone everyone except your True Emotion Mirrors. Friends-with-benefits-zone the ones you must, but be charming about it: be openly polyamorous, know their philosophy, and don’t get guilted into making life-long commitments to temporary lovers. Don’t get mad – get happy. Smile to yet another person. Have so many friends nobody can claim you as their own until you want to give yourself to the right person. Never allow anyone to criticize you for having too many friends or not having a bestie. Just smile and say you’re looking for people special to you… You love everybody, but nobody more than anybody else… Until you do. If they accuse you of being shallow, laugh and admit to it: “maybe I am, but what I am, also, is a charmer, don’t you think?”

Have fun, and when you know you need to rescue someone, don’t fight your way in. Charm your way in. Charm the friends, charm the family, charm the co-workers, whomever you have to… Even when you know you’re just waiting to “steal” someone from them.

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