Clarity to your exact sexual orientation.

The Universe asks you to ponder this a little: What is your EXACT sexual orientation? I’ll give you some questions the meanings of which may not be instantly obvious. Just go with the feeling, and allow yourself to linger in the questions too, the feelings they bring up. This is not a test; this is you examining yourself and sending the results to the Universe. Don’t worry; it’ll know what to do with it.

Who do you look up to?

Who do you look up to, admire, and want to be like? Are they male or female? Polyandrist men and women tend to idolize men, and polygynous men and women tend to idolize women. Polygynandrous people tend to have no gender difference here.

Whose opinion matters to you?

Imagine a few people telling you that you look sexy. What is your reaction if it is coming from a male or female? Same, one is “eeww, how is that your business” and one is “ooh, really?” Which is which?

Sex off the table, who do you want to hang out with?

Oddly enough, your sexual orientation is the easiest to decide by who you’d rather hang out with when there’s no sex on the table. Would you rather hang out in a group of all men (and just you as as girl if you are one), or a group of women (and just you as the guy if you are one), or in a mixed group of men and women?

If you, whether you’re male or female, tend to choose women over men, you are more than likely a polygynist.

If you, whether you’re male or female, tend to choose men over women, you are more than likely a polyandrist.

If you, whether you’re male or female, couldn’t choose to save your life, I call you polygynandrist.

If you always just groan: I just want to hang out with one person, preferably only one person at a time, congrats, you might actually be a real monogamist – a unicorn!

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