Crafting your dream life for LOA

I will first cue you in on what Law of Attraction is, in case it’s a new thing. The LOTTW is a theory, that whatever we wish for, we shall receive. However, it’s a tricky one, because it also responds to negative wishes, such as: “I wish I could show that woman how stupid she is in rejecting her child like that…” and you shall be given the chance of showing love towards a child of yours who’s actions you cannot quite stomach. It also responds to the wish to be right heavily: “I knew this wouldn’t work, so THERE! My life is STILL a misery!” Sometimes we wish to be right more than we wish to be happy. So, that having said, I want to encourage you to build a life’s dream that is so inspiring, that you no longer pull negative stuff into your life because you want that positive life so bad you forget about your negative angst.

1. What’s your fetish? Given that you’re reading this particular blog, it maybe polygamyORpolygynandry¹. If that is the case, which type of a relationship gets your juices flowing:
 – Polygyny; one husband, multiple wives; the women choose one man who is beyond comparison – for example, you could wish to first find the women, and then, fall in love with the same man. If he gets all of your votes, geesh he must be quite a guy!
– Polyandry; One wife, several husbands; the same in reverse; if she gets all of your hearts pumping, wowsa!
– Mixed grop; Who wants to settle for one primary spouse, when you could have a bit of this, bit of that, and everyone living together in understanding of the importance of physical love?

There is no wrong answer there, even if you thought no woman/man would go for Polyandry or Polygyny, you’d be wrong. (Everyone kinda gets the group thing… I think, but that’s sort of the exciting part to the gyny and andry -groups, that it is bizarre and challenging because several people share one partner…)

2. What kind of people would you KILL to know and why?

Would you like to brush shoulders with the rich and the famous only to write a “tell all” book about them later? Well shame on  you, but if you want that, want it. (If you want not to want it, picture it to such great detail that it loses it’s luster, or you become cool with it, like oh well, THAT (kind of) person would DESERVE it!)
Would you like to be included in a highly creative team of people doing something magnificent?
Or, would you rather just find people who love you for who you are, and raise your family with them, while thinking pizza is the coolest thing you could have for Friday? (Maybe you’re tired of the rat race?)

3. What would you like to do for living?

Lotto? Blogging? Work from home or have a big corner office somewhere important? What would make you feel proud to tell people what you do for living? Run your own business? Doing what?

4. Living arrangements?

In your ideal relationship, where would everyone live? If you live together, do you share the bedroom or do you all have your own? Do you revel in the thought of lots of space and uncluttered areas, or would you rather, and this is possible, live in an old building with looots and loots of stuff in it, like a treasure chest? Old house or a new one? Climate? Hmm… what about a camper van or a boat for a home, or one of those tiny buildings built on a squarefoot of wasteland in the middle of the city?

5. Entertainment? What do you do for fun, if the above doesn’t get you going yet?

Nightlife? Museums, restaurants? Movie theaters, theaters?

6. Pets?

Do you love the idea of having pets around? Cats, dogs, horses, snakes…. What kind of people would you love to share those animals with?

7. Other friends and family?

Anyone you want to kick to the curb? Anyone you’d love to reestablish a relationship with? What about new people? Who would you love to add to your close circle of people?

8. What do  you want to avoid?

No school for kids? Homeschooling? Unschooling? Do you want to make sure you have removed back-stabbing friends from your ultimate fantasy…? (Probably.) Early morning rises? Long working weekends? Cars that don’t start? Computers that don’t work? Invite a solution to these problems and any others that you feel.

9. Religion and spirituality?

Add or reduce? Would you like to discover your latent psychic powers and make a good use of them, or are you in the position of needing to cut back on Bible groups? Is religion a   positive aspect in your life or is it creating limitations you don’t need?

10. How is your mental health? Stressed? Anxious? Pissed off?

Wouldn’t you like to achieve peace and calm in your emotional space, while still finding exciting things into your life, stuff that makes you want to jump out of bed in the morning rather than moan and complain about another day of …t? What kind of a person would you like to be? Confident? Happy? Excited?

1. Depending on context. Some time ago, I used the term polygamy to mean either the generic concept of polygamous marriage or a MM+FF+ -type marriage or poly-committed relationship. ↩

Subscribe to get a Daily Message