Dealing with online negativity and turning it into a spiritual power tool

This is a spiritual power tool that will make you AMAZING in no time flat, but it takes a TON of COURAGE to get started with.

Nobody enjoys being disliked. Some people seem to enjoy or be indifferent to negative attention, but they seem to equate negative attention with jealousy and envy and think nothing more of it. While sometimes that’s the right interpretation, it is UNLIKELY anyone is jealous of you for divorcing Johnny Depp… 😉 “Oh, I envy her courage of divorcing the sexiest man in the world. She must be so special! Now, I’ll go on Twitter to hurl abuse at her.” Yeah, realism is required for this to work. She may also think people are angry with her for DUMPING Johnny, even though it was Johnny who left her, but the point is that cowards will turn any backlash into a compliment for themselves without self-scrutiny. Don’t be Amber. Be Sebby; brave. 😉

Let me get back into it.

Now, whenever you encounter a negative feeling or thought, you should dig into it with absolute fearlessness. It is ONLY emotion. It’s ONLY a feeling. It’s a BUG REPORT. It’s your consciousness alerting you to the fact that you’re UNAWARE of something; it is an UNKNOWN, and as such it is scary and needs you to check it out. Are you wrong? Are they wrong? Do you need to start a fight with this asshole? Can you just let them be in their misinformation, or is it you who needs to think twice about how you take to things? Heaven forbid; could you possibly be wrong?

At any rate, WHAT IS IT that makes you feel AWFUL about negative comments and sneer? More than likely, you fear they are justified in their opinion of you. You fear checking if it’s true. Is it true? If it’s not, how do YOU know it isn’t true? Can you show to them that they’re wrong somehow?

What do they want from you by hurling abuse at you? Are they after attention, or do they need you to take accountability for something? Are they, perhaps, afraid YOU are right and they need to shut you up so they can stay in their own delusions? “Eating sugary and greasy foods will gradually make you fat.” “Oooo, you body-shaming fascist!” You know? There was no suggestion that “being fat” is a bad thing… None of that was false. Yet. Backlash. The person who knows sugar and fat make you fat is simply stating a well-known fact. So well-known, in fact, that it doesn’t necessarily require repeating, but… An example. Why the backlash? “I don’t want to accept sugar and grease is bad for me, but it’s genetic; therefore, I’ll react to you like you were a witch hunter…”

Once you get good at identifying your problems and your critic’s own problems (because they potentially have a ton) and the reasons why they react to you the way they do, several things will happen: You’ll get more self-confident in your opinions that are rightly based, you’ll learn to weed out any attitudes, thoughts, and opinions that you realized were not well informed, and you’ll become better at communicating YOUR POINT across to a crowd that may point blank disagree with you.

And eventually, you’ll become unstoppable, strong, and fearless to be who you are.

And the next thing you need to watch out for is people who respect you too much to disagree with you if you decide to take a dump on a church altar. (Please don’t; I’m just saying there’s a stage when you become so elevated in the eyes of others you can’t do wrong. And THAT is not the goal; it is an invitation to crazy-town, so don’t go that far. You gotta watch yourself once others no longer dare to disagree with you.

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