Do as you’re tempted to do – and avoid some traps

To manifest your dream, here’s the recipe.

Do what you are genuinely tempted by. The sinful pleasures. What makes you feel guilty for doing them, because they’re so good – not because they hurt someone else. Don’t succumb to temptations of self-sacrifice, tho. Do not self-sacrifice. They seem to be ALWAYS the wrong choice, even if you self-sacrificed for someone who you TRULY love and wish to protect. People who love you don’t want you to self-sacrifice, not for them, not for anyone. People who don’t love you will chase you away eventually if you demand to have what isn’t yours constantly… (Like the love of someone who doesn’t love you – it just won’t work.)

The only danger is to deny yourself a temptation so often that people think you don’t actually want it – and to do “the right thing” so often your soulmates think that’s what you REALLY want to be doing. People with a weaker will assume everyone will give into temptation eventually, and heck it is true, everyone will, hopefully, do so, but not everybody is so tempted by the forbidden fruit that they would eat a rotten orange simply because someone told them not to. Then there are those who would.

The vacuum cleaner dust bath analogy

I had a curious problem with a friend who is actually a scat fetishist. I begun by saying that “that is about as tempting as a bath of shit”, then realized she didn’t understand the reference the same way as I did, so I had to adjust the analogy. So I found something that I figure everyone would agree isn’t very tempting or sexy. (Please don’t try to make it into it.)

Imagine a jacuzzi filled with the contents of a vacuum cleaner dust bags. You know, hair, sand, leaves, dust, skin flakes, dried up food bits, a few of those worms that die into the corners, house fly corpses, dried up spiders and mosquitoes… The usual mixture of goodies. A bath full of that stuff. This is the stuff you don’t want, right?

Now, one person’s dust bath is another person’s temptation. However, you see it as a freaking vacuum cleaner dust bath. Not like a chinchilla sees a dust bath. To you, it’s nasty, right? But it’s not like a snake pit or a swim with the alligators. So, in order to think you’ll get what you want if you just do this thing, you’d go sit in the freaking dust for a duration of time, right? So, in other words:

You believe that by self-sacrifice you will receive what you truly want, right? If someone INSISTS this is what you need to do in order to be happy, you take the dust bath like a bitter pill you need to swallow to cure a disease, right? To them, the dust bath in itself is the very thing that tempts them SOOO MUCH, like a chinchilla graving for coat fluffing ash, that they don’t understand how ANYONE could say no to that.

They believe you’re saying you can’t have that because society tells you it’s a bad thing. You know, everyone is trying to FORCE YOU into fucking beautiful women, when in truth, you’re tempted by the delicious fuglies. (That’s actually the way some people see it, you might be one of them.) Some may say that you need to have a family and children in order to become happy, because to them, it’s the truth, while to you, a burden… Or vice versa.

There are people who CANNOT, to the life of them, understand that not everyone wants the same thing, and they think you are refusing the very thing that to them is heaven is you trying to be a good person. If you finally give in, they think they’ve managed to coerse you to give in to YOUR temptation because it’s THEIR temptation.

Don’t give into the temptation. Explain to them it is TRULY not what you see being exciting or… Whatever they think it is.

Everybody want you to be happy, promise

Everybody wants everybody to be happy, is the craziest thing. Whenever we self-sacrifice, we stop that outcome from becoming true. Self-sacrifice means that everybody will be just a little unhappy because you’ve made yourself unhappy. I promise homophobes think gay men are self-sacrificing by agreeing to fuck other men rather than beautiful women, OR they are angry with them because THEY have self-sacrificed by NOT fucking other men, and they try to realign gay men so they’d be HAPPIER. 😀 A bully may well be trying to teach their victim to be more self-assertive and to stand up for themselves, rather than victimize them further. Hitler wanted to rid the world from the jews that destroyed it all in his view. WE ARE ALL just trying to make everyone happy. Everyone, or at least the people we care for.

And the amount of men who try to make the woman he loves happy by NOT subjecting her to his “vile” sexual desires is another chapter entirely… Responsible for MOUNTAINS of grief in the discarded, ignored loves of men who think their sexuality is dirty… Amplified by lesbian women who wholly agree.

DO NOT self-sacrifice. DO NOT ASSUME what other people want you to do. Do not assume other people want what you want. Don’t think one woman is capable of speaking for all women, or that all men is capable of speaking for all men. Don’t think all children are raised well the same way.

WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT. Whatever you are HAS a perfect counterpart or counterparts. You do not have to oppress or violate ANYONE in order to live the way you want to live.

PROMISE.

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