Do you have to be rich to gain the love of your True Emotion Mirror?

Your True Emotion Mirror is not going to care whether you’re rich or poor. They are your perfect counterpart, and your lowest of low is not any lower than theirs can be. I just wrote a bit about poop fetishists, so let’s keep to that topic; if you are a poop fetishist, so is your True Emotion Mirror and your Precious Soulmates are likely to be, too. That said, don’t expect anything from other people.

In that sense, acting by the lowest you can be can keep you safe from unwanted soul bonds. Stepping away from poop fetishists; your lowest or most “I wish I could do that without losing love over it” is where your True Emotion Mirrors can catch you. They may even love you FOR many of the things that others will try to change about you, so the most important thing is to be authentic and NOT exceed your own boundaries and limits… Not that you could, but don’t worry about stuff you wouldn’t do under any circumstances. (Also, stop pandering to “don’t be such a spoil sport” or “a cool person would do that” or “don’t be a party pooper,” to get over your limits. Be a spoil sport, be a party pooper, and be a prude, it doesn’t matter. Your True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates wouldn’t want you to do stuff like that… Whatever that is. “Come on, you know you want to” is a bit different, if they’re right.)

Giving in to your indulgences at the risk of losing casual friends is a good idea, as long as it’s healthy and safe enough. (And legal.) But DO NOT complain when finding a partner is difficult in the interim between finding your actual True Emotion Mirrors. Let others laugh at you, disrespect you, loathe you if you want, but you know… You don’t HAVE TO stoop lower than what you hold your standards in, considering your True Emotion Mirrors will love you for your standards, too. If you are a proper person, pious and kind, so will your True Emotion Mirrors be. No matter how prudish you are, your True Emotion Mirrors are equally prudish. (I am sorry if this is you and you read this far… This wasn’t the nicest post for you!)

As for money, well, there is this: There are True Emotion Mirrors who love to play with money. To them, business and finances are a part of their mating ritual. That said, if it’s not important to you, it won’t be important to your True Emotion Mirror, either. The point of TrEmoRs is never what they all are, it is how they feel for EACH OTHER. My True Emotion Mirror is not yours, and yours is not mine, and their value system is not going to be the same.

You can tell all you need to know about your True Emotion Mirror by comparing him or her to yourself, not to me or my True Emotion Mirrors! What my TrEmoRs and I are like has nothing to do with what yours are like; it’s just that your True Emotion Mirrors will love you as much as mine love me, and vice versa. That’s the common factor, not what we actually DO to make that happen. My True Emotion Mirrors are not “exceptionally loving or forgiving people.” I certainly am not. We love each other because we are exactly right for each other, not because we’re “better people” than others.

If we do something better than others is that we care less about what outsiders think of us and are freer to be who we are. WHAT we actually do is secondary. Write an honest description of yourself. Your True Emotion Mirror is that person. Write a description of yourself as the best version of yourself as you could imagine. Your True Emotion Mirror is that person, too. You are on that continuum between the worst you can be and the best you can be. You, not other people.

Now, the question is this: Would you date yourself the way you are now? If not, neither would your True Emotion Mirror. They demand of you as much as it would take you to date yourself. That’s your barometer. Would you date yourself? No, then, neither would your True Emotion Mirror. (Don’t cry to me about your shared standards. I didn’t make your rules, you did.)

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