Do you have to change friends to cut away from poverty?

Years ago, I read a book about the Law of Attraction, and it said you have to drop your friends so you can break free from their lower thinking. I thought, “Surely not!” After all, who wants to live like that?! Luckily, that is not entirely correct. You have two options. You either share your wealth and success with those who you love, or you cut contact with those who you don’t intend to share that success with. Once you have made that decision, you are fine with it, and you’re confident you can live with that decision – completed the rest of your spiritual tasks (psychological tasks) you’ll be free to move on.

But the answer is this: You will have to choose between the friends you’ll keep and the friends you’ll cut off. You’ll also have to know how you will deal with the ones that come knocking and begging.

What are you perfectly willing to compromise on, to bargain with?

Also, this isn’t 100% true. It depends on how much you’re willing to compromise on your happiness this time. I decided to “end this bullshit” and to “understand everything.” That is my spiritual mission, one that I have set for myself. I also knew I’d have to write every answer down for those who come after me… Possibly even my own incarnations, so that all this work wouldn’t be for nothing even if I died trying to finish it.

You need to become aware of what it is that you decided to achieve in this life and in what order of importance. That is what the Law of the Truest Wish dictates. It will trump the Law of Attraction if what you wish for contradicts something you truly want. I have also called it “the Law of the Highest Wish,” but that is not entirely true because some of us may well wish to save the world but don’t truly mean it. Sadly, in some sense, I do. ;p I want to “fix this world” and “end this bullshit,” and yes… “Have every dollar in the world run through my pockets at least once” which is quite the wish. 😀

Meaning of death

Achievable in one lifetime? Perhaps if I also get my wish to reach “practical immortality.” It’s not 100% immortality because imagine being 100% immortal and being buried alive. NOBODY wants to be that indestructible. Death is a security setting. It’s a way out when you’re perfectly stuck. It’s the final HELP button. And yes, for security purposes, I believe we live only approximately 100 years at a time. So we don’t get stuck in our own ways, you see. But if you can become better at managing your life toward perfect happiness, you’ll probably stop dying out of old age. And “perfect happiness” is a high goal. I bet it also includes the happiness of everyone you care about, as how could you be 100% happy if your loved ones aren’t?

False Ego

Leading us back to the beginning. “Loved ones” is somewhat a term that always includes your family by default, right? It doesn’t have to, however. If you don’t love them, you don’t love them, and that’s all there is to it. There is no need to try and make something that isn’t what it ideally should be into a matter of false ego. That is among your spiritual tasks, I’m sure, to rid yourself of your FALSE ego. You can’t rid yourself of all ego and your true understanding of who you are, but you can rid yourself of false ideas of self. (Ego is your idea of self, and the false ego consists usually of nice-sounding lies you tell yourself about yourself. You can also tell horrible-sounding lies because you think that makes you sound more humble and positive.)

Be honest with yourself. Not brutally honest. Brutal honesty calls for harsher judgment than what is necessary to get to the truth. Just be honest. Face yourself. This is what I am, no better, no worse. Remember a self-put down is still a lie.

False Vos

See and accept the truth about your soulmates, too. Are they what you want them to be?  Is your family who you want them to be? Are you at their level, are they at your level? Is it true that they’re worthy of you, or that you’re worthy of them? Do you want to be? Do they?

Just be honest. Basically re-evaluate everyone in your life and how you want it. Authentic compromises? Like… My former husband isn’t a True Emotion Mirror, but I feel like he’s family. His issue is, as he stated it himself: “I always go for women who don’t give a fuck (about me).” I’m on the edge, I truly feel like I don’t want to leave him behind, but I can’t remarry him, either, not even polyandrously. I want him there, but on the side. I wish he’ll find his True Emotion Mirror, but I’m not sure he wants it for himself for whatever crazy reason. Maybe later. “I want to see you’re OK first.” He just said.

That’ll be fine. 🙂 (I think his True Emotion Mirror just burst to tears: “That’s why I love him. He doesn’t bail on people he cares about. Not even for me.” That I know. And I don’t want to bail on him either, but granted, I’m a bit more a bailer than him. One of us has to be… So we don’t get stuck. 😀 So, a room in our future “mansion” it is.)

If you already cut them off, why are they still with you in spirit?

In case you’re in a similar bind to mine, you’ve already cut off a ton of people in your physical/real life. You haven’t spoken to them in 10 years, but they’re in spirit with you, insisting for a cut. Why isn’t it getting through to them?

For me, it’s the requirement to write everything down. Once I write a specific thing, and “nail it” it goes away. At least it will stop nagging LOUD. There’s been a lot of writing. I still react to some of it wrong. I start arguing about it rather than writing about it. So next is Second Life or idiotic meaningless pursuits that defy all logic but feel super important… Get to them. There’s a point to them. You don’t have to understand everything before you do, just follow a calling. (They may call it ADHD or bipolar disorder, but it’s actually a spiritual guidance that doesn’t seem to be a direct path in real life, but is certainly arrow straight in spirit. You feel like you’re going in circles or in random order, but in truth, if you want to be an overnight success there’s stuff that need doing but if you completed it all now, you’d be reaching success on a linear path, gradually… Not over night…)

Age limit, then. Is there an age limit to not wanting it anymore?

I’ve gone past my 10 year limit. I’ve gone past my 30’s, 40’s, I was supposed to die at 42. When is it going to be “too late”? You feel like if it hasn’t happened by… Whatever age, you don’t want it anymore but you know… I’m no longer sure that’s true. You’ll take whatever time you have left. Is it enough? Probably not. But you’ll take whatever time you have left to live out the best life possible for that time.

And your True Emotion Mirrors are never going to be so old you’d rather replace them with someone younger. (Those are perfectly aligned Vaporizing Lust Mirrors who come and go for age.)

For as long as you’re alive, there’s a chance you’ll get what you want in the end and that is going to be enough to be worth waiting for. We’ll die once that is no longer true. All options have been spent and we need a new start… Better aligned than last time. Your work won’t go to waste, even if you died before completing it. (I abhor the idea of becoming yet another “not recognized in her lifetime – she was too far ahead of her times” -hero, but you know. I’ll find a way to organize it the way I want it before I die if it comes to that. Maybe I’ll wind up buying HostGator’s web servers in a new lifetime, at some antique technology -auction in 2500 and come to possession of my own writings, recognize them as such and… They’d be a bit old by then but you know. A jump start nonetheless. Backup plan over backup copies that somehow never got wiped.)

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