Dom Pro-tips: How to force sex without forcing anyone.

There’s the matter of consent, first of all. You need consent, right, but asking for it can be such a massive turn off for both of you. It’s like starting a first date romantic dinner by signing a prenuptial agreement. Not hot.

Still, you need consent.

Pro-tip #1

Phrase your question: “If you don’t want this, say no now.” It’s much, much sexier to ask for silence as a sign of agreement than demanding for an awkward “yes”. Unless that happens to be your very thing.

Pro-tip #2

You CAN demand a relationship to be and remain sexual. If a relationship isn’t sexual, it’s a friendship, anyway, but you can demand debaucherous sex without breaking any laws: “This relationship cannot continue unless you do this.” Just make sure you do this from the start, and the ONLY THREAT you’ll ever use is that you will break up with the person unless they do this.

Don’t do this for the first time after you’re already parents. That’s when the threat will become too big; losing the family, doing it for the children, turns into abuse. However, to force a relationship into being sexual, isn’t anything but a question “how much do you want the relationship to keep going”?

However, be aware that women may assume that once you marry them, the sex will no longer be a requirement. Make sure your future wife understands that after marriage, their sexual duties will increase, not vanish.

Morality

Forcing a man or a woman into a sexual relationship at the risk of losing you is a way to force people to do what they want to do anyway. You kind of take that decision from them, take the responsibility for it. Force a person into acting sexual and to be loved for their sexuality, rather than despite it.

However, when a person is DESPERATE for a relationship, due to, for example, unappealing looks, they maybe TOO eager to please, no matter what. Therefore, morally, you should raise your bar a little, and ask for submission from men or women who are certainly good enough to find a less dominant man if they want one.

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