Don’t allow people to put too much emphasis on just one thing I’ve said.

When I have done my spiritual preparation for what’s to come, I’ve ran into some very insignificant aspects that are being lifted above other, FAR more important things. This is somewhat of an individual thing; something a teacher says scares you, and it takes a far too big portion of your understanding of what is being said, clouding your judgment of what’s important. When you feel something another person is focussed on takes too much space in their understanding, ask them, “What are you afraid of within that part of the text? Why has it taken so much space in your mind?” (Such as supposedly Jesus hated homosexuals and thus homosexuals would be thrown to Hell, which, I assure you, was not what he wanted to say. Still, if you’re gay and fear judgment of it, hearing something along the lines of possibly suggesting such a thing will sound like that’s what it says in the Bible when it really doesn’t, and certainly not as a centric part of the religion.)

Everything I say must be viewed in the context of everything else I’m saying, obviously. There can’t be some ad-hock statement that is interpreted to go directly against another part of the theory – I’ve gone through pains to make sure I don’t contradict myself. If something seems to be in contradiction, do some more thinking before you decide that’s what I said here and another thing there.

Know: People bandage their insecurities by hanging onto one specific thing to dear life.

You also must accept that reality is complicated, people are complicated, and there is never(?) going to be a situation where all signs point clearly to one obvious thing, such as “for certain, this person is/is not my True Emotion Mirror.”

You cannot expect or seek a situation where you will cease having questions or doubts and then bandage that insecurity by hanging onto ONE thing separated from the whole, to put all your attention, focus, and faith solely on that one thing that sounds somewhat reassuring or, ironically scary to you. Some people seem to think religious leaders or spiritual teachers or life or relationship coaches want them to feel scared so their followers have a reason to can keep being faithful, when truly we are trying to REMOVE fear from the people who read/listen to us by telling them where the danger is so they can AVOID IT. When you know what the dangers are, you should feel more confident in your choices when you know what to watch out for.

Different motivations to read, my motivation to write.

So, be aware of what other people look for in texts such as this, and know it may not be at all what you’re looking for. Some look for strength, some look for wisdom not to accidentally or unintentionally hurt other people, some seek wisdom not to get themselves hurt, some seek moral justification for an immoral act, some seek ways to abuse others, and some seek unity and friendship with other “believers” or myself. What’s the tragedy is that each type tends to think what they seek is what everybody seeks (more or less).

Know this: I don’t want to keep babysitting people, so I’m giving the public a manual into independent adulthood. I don’t ever want to hear of the majority of you, ever. I’d quite rather pretend like you don’t even exist. Don’t ever assume that “Sebastyne loves you” because I’m doing this for you. No. Most of the time, people annoy the living crap out of me, and my motivation for writing is ANNOYANCE and HATE of certain individuals rather than love for humanity at large. So don’t saint me. I’m no saint. Most of the time, I’m just pissed off, not filled with love for humanity.

Be aware that I am writing this hoping you will find INDEPENDENCE in others, that you will find courage and self-confidence in your relationships with other people, and that you can, in your own time and way, create the life you wanted for yourself, without unintentionally hurting other people as you do it: I am teaching you (and your immortal reincarnating soul) moral selfishness and interpersonal relationship skills, nothing fancier than that.

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