Don’t assume “female sexuality” equates with “lesbianism”

Lesbians don’t like to have sex with men. They find this idea rather repulsive.

This has long been assumed to be the general consensus among women of all sexual orientations, but OBVIOUSLY, it doesn’t apply to heterosexual woman. People, other than straight women, tend to have this idea that “female sexuality” is a brand of a lesbian woman who is willing and able to submit to male sexuality given enough external incentives, like money and security, to do so.

Heterosexual women are shamed for wanting to have sex with men because a lesbian woman who thinks of themselves as a heterosexual will think “OMG you’re allowing him to VIOLATE YOU, and not even promise to marry you! Eww, how do you do that to yourself?!” Straight woman thinks… “Why, why shouldn’t I? I… Want it… Like ALL THE TIME. With basically whomever – even bad sex is still sex, you know..?” But are they going to say it out loud? Not until they’ve figured out that some women GENUINELY don’t like sex, at least not men, and they’re not just better at hiding it.

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