Don’t fight uninvited guests out of your head if you’re psychic/in a telepathic True Emotion Mirror state.

The old advice: “Ignore them, and they’ll go away,” seems to apply here. When someone you don’t want around comes to you for attention, the one thing they can hold over your head is the very unwelcomeness of their stay. They’re also fighting for their lives here; by trying to push them away, you’re effectively trying to make them not exist, as for as long as you’re aware of them, they cannot NOT be on your mind, right?

You can’t exactly FORGET they’re there, either, can you? They’ll push your buttons every way possible and try to get under your skin, and knowing you can’t push them away is going to drive you mental, but you still CAN’T BELIEVE this is what your life is now; sharing every moment of your existence (or at least a very uncomfortable size of it) with people you can’t stand.

Whenever we suffer, we’re trying to achieve the impossible or cannot accept reality the way it is. We try to push people out, not accepting it’s impossible in spirit. The more you push, the more solid and real they become to you.

What you CAN DO is to accept they are there, and there’s NOTHING you can do about it. Just accept defeat in that area – it wasn’t humanly possible in the first place to drive them away. Feel how your energy sifts if you try this – you can try it without committing to it now. Just accept they’ll be there, possibly for the rest of your life. Maybe forever, and you’ll have to ignore them; you’ll have to make do with a life they’re a part of. That they are a part of who you are now – you are the person with unwanted attachments.

Imagine different ways to talk about it. Are you ashamed of them being there? Maybe you shouldn’t be. Proud? Maybe you shouldn’t be? Angry? Defeated? Sad that they’re still here? Try different emotional responses to them and see how they react. (Trust me, “secrets” or “cunning plans” don’t work in spirit – you can do this right in front of them, and it doesn’t matter how much they know about your conniving approaches. They’ll work regardless.)

The spirit is simply emotion. You sift your emotion, and the boogymen will go away. You just have to figure out what is the combination key for this particular attachment, for instance… To mine, it seems to be me being ashamed of them. I’m not, so they think I’m proud of their love for me, but that’s not true. Still, whatever way they think will be their release button. And, having said that, not getting much attention is what works for all of them if you can muster it. And the easiest way to achieve that is accepting there’s nothing you can do about them being there. THEY will have to make the decision to leave you alone, you’ve done all you can.

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