Don’t let your ego talk you into the wrong relationships when looking for true love.

If you are consciously looking for your True Emotion Mirror, you will likely start interpreting mild True Emotion Mirror signs for real ones. It’s also true with just a regular “the right one” concept; you want to find it so bad that you’ll start seeing things. Still, you know you don’t like this thing about them, you’re very iffy about that part, and you’re not entirely sure if you can live with this third thing, but you explain it away thinking, “Well, I’m being petty… Maybe ‘the Universe’ knows better. Maybe this is meant as a growing experience for me”, or “I can change him/her.” These feelings do not belong into the True Emotion Mirror experience.

Fuck growing experiences.

Here’s a growing experience for you: Learn to walk away from a pretty good thing to find absolute perfection. Learn to let naysayers’ and manipulators’ words fall on deaf ears. Stop listening to people who promise you “one day” or “you’ll see” -results with a partner you don’t feel excited about seeing… Or who seems not too excited about you. That said, there is a certain “just knowing” about a True Emotion Mirror, but truth be told, if you are very pushy personality, what you may know, is that you are able to put pressure on people or this particular person, to go against their instinct and start a relationship with you, even against their own will.

You know you’re never going to get what you want if you settle for what you don’t want.

You KNOW what you want to experience. You know how you ensure you’re NEVER going to experience that? By settling for less. By accepting a facsimile. By talking yourself into accepting less than what you want. Only by staying true to what you’re looking for: more, better, more awe-striking, you at least keep your options open.

Now, people settle for what they don’t want all the time. Don’t force someone else into settling for you. You don’t want to be the person someone else has to settle for when they can’t get the one they want… Using weak True Emotion Mirror signs as your tool of coersion.

Fear makes you settle for less than what you want. Fear makes people try to tackle you because they think you’re the best they can ever have. We all tend to hang onto a low-hanging fruit when the one we want is somewhere beyond reach or even still out of sight.

the Ravens* must stop being sensible, and the Young Soul* must start being sensible.

Notice when you are talking yourself into a “sensible reaction” out of fear of letting go of what you didn’t ask for or didn’t want.  Don’t promise yourself it would be sensible because you think it might be better in the long run. You’re trying to JUSTIFY and EXPLAIN your less ambitious achievements because you are AFRAID of the embarrassment of failing your higher goal, getting rejected by the one you truly want… Or finding out that people that you want don’t want you. The Young Soul* thinkers must now take their eyes off the easy price, the one they think they should be able to tackle but who, for some reason, is resisting and look for alternatives. 

Also, make sure you notice when your ego is trying to talk you into trying for the higher goal that your heart has no respect for. You know? Like a celebrity who is nice to you, and you notice others are afraid of them, you don’t like them, but you know or think you could have them easily, and that would deliciously piss off their fans, right? You’re just being a dick/cunt, you know? Celebrities and prom queens and kings have their own True Emotion Mirrors, too, you know, and only a dick/cunt sees them as usable people simply because they’re prettier than you.

Watch your ego.

You can date down and date up for the same reason: ego. Either you want to boost it with a higher catch than you should have, or you want to act modest so you’d gain the approval of… The man on the street, you, know? If you don’t want people say “oh, you’re so superficial.” No, you’re superficial if you can’t see humans and love out of too much physical beauty, and you’re being both fake and stupid, pandering to the expectations of people you don’t even like… Because you don’t want someone you like to have a false idea that they might be better than you somehow. Let them be better at dating normal people, yes? Maybe turn the tables and provide them admiration about it; “Oh, I do admire your ability to just let go of the physical beauty; I, I enjoy it too much to give it up. And I like smart people, too. But you… You’re so admirably easily pleased. You don’t mind fucking both ugly and stupid at the same time. It’s so cool.”

The difficulty in waiting for your True Emotion Mirrors is to avoid temptations along the way—temptations to settle for less, temptations to simply go with the easily available, temptation to talk yourself into believing you’ve already found it when you know you have not… And the temptation to try and get the cool guy or girl, and flicking your own kind, your True Emotion Mirrors off the board when you could maybe get that cool one… Temporarily. (Shallow.)

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