Don’t make me chase if you want me

Here’s the thing. Women who chase after you think they are lower in value than other women. They need to prove they are equal to other women by chasing the one they can’t have or who is with someone else. They will do anything for your attention, and they believe once they have your attention, they’ve WON something. That they are now equal to those women who have your attention without trying. That is an ego reaction to being ignored. “Don’t ignore me, I’m not inferior to those women.”

I don’t chase you, because I don’t have ego issues such as that. If you don’t give me attention, I believe you are not interested in me, and you don’t have to be. I am not, in any way, offended by your lack of interest in a continued relationship with me. To each their own. I know you don’t think I’m a complete write-off even if you don’t think I’m long-term potential, or because you want something different than what I’m after. It’s cool.

Sometimes I feel men who WANT ME play hard to get to play on my ego. Or they feel that if I am interested I will chase you because that’s women’s job. It is not, tho. I’m used to men who chase me even when I’m not particularly interested. Men like me, and therefore, lots of men chase me. They are easily available. Now, if I have to choose from men who don’t seem interested and men who seem very interested, I choose from men who seem interested. They are AVAILABLE to me.

I will meet you halfway because that’s fair. If you seem less interested than I am, I won’t chase you for long. NOT EVEN IF YOU confessed your undying love for me the night before. I will simply assume that you changed your mind, or my reaction to it eased your ego’s pain and now you know you can have the girl you thought was “unattainable”.

Trust me, I’m nobody’s trophy. I fuck a lot of men, I love a lot of men, I am easily coaxed into a continued relationship with a man (because I’m hetero-everything and prefer male company and don’t need to save time for going shopping with the girls). I’m not a trophy. You’ll need to want me for something other than your ego. I will even ATTEMPT to not play your ego to test your genuine interest.

I am not tempted by what I can’t have or what isn’t mine. SURE I sleep with married men because some of them are AVAILABLE to me, easily. If they make themselves available to me so easily that I don’t have to chase them, then they are not truly that married in the first place. I love some celebrities, but I hate the fact they are inaccessible. What am I going to do with someone I can’t even reach? I’m WAY too lazy to start running after some guy, no matter how much I love him. He has to come to me, otherwise, well, I’ll just keep doing what I’m doing.

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