Dreamer, (romantic, intuitive, or psychic) stuck in a life that doesn’t quite fit?

My heading sucks, I know. But I don’t know how to catch your attention here, as this is one bizarre problem psychic empaths have – but the trouble is, you might not be aware you are one. Most of us still associate ourselves as a dreamer or a feeler or some such thing. See if the following seems true for you:

• You feel like you see everyone else, but they can’t really see you emotionally speaking.
• It seems to you, that everyone is interested in you (either romantically or as a best friend), but you can’t really see why they can’t see you don’t care about them PERSONALLY, even if you are interested in ALL PEOPLE and their emotions.
• You feel others demand your love and emotions a lot and you don’t think they really understand that they’re asking too much.
• You seem to have trouble connecting with the greatest loves in your life, you see them, they see you, but somehow, stars just won’t align.
• You feel stuck with people who don’t mean that much to you, but you can’t really be unkind toward them because you see they’re not bad people, but at the same time, your frustration with the situation grows on a daily basis.
• You seem to be collecting admirers and lovers everywhere, but you don’t TRULY feel the same toward them, and that makes you (and them) think there’s something emotionally wrong with you.
• Narcissism has possibly been offered as an explanation for your emotional “coldness” where you don’t feel cold at all, your love for certain people is burning strong, but those people to you seem unattainable, but for a bizarre reason – you feel their love for you, too.

Sound familiar?

Do you have a habit of “seeing into people” rather than focussing on the externals?

People like this focus on the insides of the people they’re with. Their emotional states. You read people like the back of your hands, but you feel like nobody truly gets you. It’s more than likely that you’re a celebrity, because people gravitate toward you, want to help you along in this world, and a lot of people think you’re completely incompatible with the real world. Some of this, you agree with. ;p

As you focus on other people’s inner world, their inner being, you constantly give them a vibe that you are interested in them… FOR REALS. Your “always interested” focus isn’t in your plastic surgeon gone bad -eyebrows, it’s in your habit of taking a personal interest in complete strangers and their feelings – probably due to a spiritual or psychological curiosity of humanity, that you simply cannot the Dog Thinker off… Or didn’t feel like you should.

The problems that arise

• With your “keen interest” in other people, everyone thinks you’re IN LOVE with them, even if your interest was truly very superficial to you.
• When you are easily connecting with other people, the ones who don’t know how to do this or how it works, will think you’re very similar in the way you “truly feel” because instead of YOUR feelings, they feel their own feelings reflected back from you. This creates an illusion of similarity and synergy.
• You may, at times, be a little too aware of people’s good traits to truly keep your distance, because they don’t deserve being scoffed, at, but you can’t truly love them, either.
• As you are more attuned to other people’s feelings than what they are to yours, you easily become a servant. Others feel their feelings are more important than yours – even the only feelings that exist, really.
• As you are attuned to other people’s needs more than your own, they easily feel you have no needs, and make no effort in meeting them even if they loved you deeply.

The expected benefits of fixing this

• Even people who were previously non-intuitive with you will be instantly in tune with your feelings and will be able to see you clearly, or at least clearly enough.
• You will become better at manifesting good things in your life, as the Universe will finally realize you’re not already living your perfect dream.

There’s a fix, but…

I can help you change your focal point from the detail to the generic, but it’ll cost you. 😉 Not money, but it’ll cost you your immediate happiness. You maybe completely focussed on your future, too, so focussed in fact, that you can’t really see the fact you’re not really eating well, your house is a mess, and you don’t have any real friends around you, but you kinda see beyond all that. You’re driven toward your future, but if you keep going this way, you’ll never arrive. It’s like you see your future so clearly, the Universe thinks you’re already there and doesn’t help you at all. You feel like a million bucks, but you are very unlikely to actually have those bucks on you… :p

It’s like you can see soooo far ahead, that in reality, all of that is way beyond your actual reach, but you see it as if it was right in front of you. Your psychic vision or your ability to visualize what it is that you want has gotten the better of you.

However, if you do this, you’ll feel instantly dampened. You feel like you’re face to face with your NOW rather than your much more appealing future, and that will suck fucking monkey balls.

Date with destiny, my ass, try a date with your reality

Okay. Imagine zooming out of your focal point. “See the big picture”, I was advised. You may be so focussed on details or the far future or both, that you can’t see what’s readily there.

What will happen, is that people who have seen you as their one True Emotion Mirror* will suddenly see that they are nowhere near your league. If they can’t see that, they’ll see you’re not happy with them, and the effect is the same; they’ll let you go. They’ll let you move onto the next phase of your life.

Your emotions will level out, and you’ll feel a different kind of dissatisfaction. Previously, you were frustrated and annoyed with others, but you were quite happy with yourself, within yourself. Now, you’re calmer, you don’t CARE about others so much. You’re not so easy to be taken advantage of. You’ll hopefully stop selling your services for free, or stop being expected to.

People will notice you don’t like them as much as they thought you did, but they won’t mind it, now, it just makes more instinctive sense to them. They’ll feel like a fool instead of blaming you for being a psychopath or a narcissist for not loving them (actwise) even though that’s not at all how you feel. Before you do this, people think you love them dearly, but refuse to show them love because you’re a selfish narcissistic cunt. Now, they realize… Oops, not so.

It’s like your mind has been so deep in others, they can’t see it

Have you ever wondered how others may view you as completely incompetent or unpractical? Or how they seem to think you’re naive and trusting, when in fact you know exactly who everyone is? Imagine having had your mind inside people’s brains, so that they can’t see you have one. Like in reality, you exist behind THEIR eyes, not those of your own.

You might have been able to describe their feelings about situations to a tee, and still, they think you’re emotionless and cold toward them, and illogically claim you don’t have emotions when you’re there explaining to them how THEY are feeling, and you’re like HOW ON EARTH do you think I can feel YOUR emotions if you think I can’t recognize emotions at all?! What the hell is wrong with you?

You can shift focus again if you need to

Frankly… I haven’t truly wanted to try and go back into the constant psychic vision myself, but I’m sure I could. I don’t even want to try, as of writing this post. It’s rather exhausting. (Chances are I’ll have to start watching what I eat, I think that might have burned off some extra calories with that…) It’s also addictive to be able to see one’s future so clearly and to see beauty where beauty is not… immediate. It’s a good skill to have, but if you get stuck there… You’re creating your own fantasy world and an illusion you can’t break… Or won’t think about breaking.

The next time you zoom in, you probably want to do it for a good reason.

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