Everything you want is just at the end of the Walk Of Shame

Not all shame walks lead to what you want, don’t get me wrong, but everything you want but don’t have, is at the end of the Walk of Shame. This means that the most likely reason you don’t get what you want is that you’re too ashamed to admit it is what you want, too big, too small, too sexy, too romantic, too blue-eyed, too bad and devilish, too childish, too ambitious, too unambitious, too “human”, too close-minded, too open-minded, too goody-two-shoe, too slutty, too materialistic, too spiritual (airy-fairy), too selfish, too generous to the point of stupidity, too you name it, whatever it is, you’re ashamed of it. You are currently busy pretending that you don’t really want what you want, but the stuff you’re told to want is what you want or that it is enough for you, or that you pretend to agree that what it is that you’re supposed to want is what you should aim to want to want… To be a better person or to be somehow more acceptable and ‘normal’, or whatever.

However, that’s your false ego talking. That is the false ego that you’ll have to rid yourself of. The thing that tells you that you have to put on a portrayal of who you should be as if what you should be was what you actually are, to people you don’t really like because they don’t have the same values as you do. A mad man’s exercise!

I’m just saying.

You can’t have it until you face your shame of it.

In addition,

You think others are sacrificing themselves by denying themselves what you want even though it’s offered to them on a silver platter… But that’s what you want, not what they want. Would you believe I thought all women would do sex work if they were allowed to? I didn’t see it as protection of women, but denial of a woman’s right to be slutty. Ironically, I’ve never wanted to charge for sex, but there are always ways to monetize your sex life haha. I thought women who sought out to do normal work or be stay-at-home mothers were simply better brainwashed than I was, or that they were stronger in mind in their denial of their inner beast and need of sex. Turns out they actually genuinely WANT that picket-fenced-up married life! Go figure!

Now, religions and other philosophies are built on everybody trying to point you toward their OWN ideal lifestyle, or what each teacher has been brainwashed to believe is the ultimate goal. In truth, if the missionaries loved the missionary position, that’s what they believed was from God, and so forth. Much of organized religion is a projection of one’s own wants and fears and the enforcement of others to follow suit. The difference with my theories is that I point it out and encourage you to seek your own goal, even if you wanted to get married and build a white picket fence to protect your two to 10 children. If that’s what you truly want *rolls eyes*.

The point of that is that you should worry less about what other people are doing and aiming for – you won’t understand their motivations in time to make your own decisions on the basis of their decisions and wants, you will have to figure out what YOU want FOR YOURSELF, no matter how weird, unusual, or embarrassing it may be.

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