Facebook and True Emotion Mirror stalking is giving me the hives!

As I blog about soulmate love, I have gotten to know a great many people as they’re looking for information to their True Emotion Mirror issues. One of the most annoying things I have to deal with is to try to understand how you people talk to each other! 😀 Some of you “send songs” to each other, some use telepathy, some burn incense and decode the message based on the smell – or that is what it feels like to me, anyway. 😀 I wish I’d hear just once that you both know the Morse code and use that as a communication method, but no… You don’t. Even when people talk face-to-face, the possibilities to misunderstand the words said is MASSIVE, and here I am dealing with people bawling their eyes out, because of a lyric their soulmate posted on their Facebook wall. Have you all lost your fucking minds, seriously?!

Look, I KNOW EXACTLY the level of emotions in play here. Everything is super sized. Everything! This is the relationship where you cannot afford sloppy messages and misunderstandings to occur. You have to talk to each other, in plain English, especially if you are mad at each other. Romantic hidden messages are WONDERFUL when you are in a relationship OR in a secret but loving relationship, but not when you’re shooting daggers at each other hoping for a resolution!

The trouble with this method is that you a) cannot be sure the messages are really for you. b) you might misunderstand something even if they were c) you might read too much into a message that was only partly intended for you to read, such as a lyric that doesn’t quite match. d) You might trust each other’s telepathic abilities too much, and at the same time ignore the effect of fear, insecurities and anger and what they do to your ability to receive a message – even plain worded one – the way it was intended. E) You might really be having a conversation by yourself thinking it’s two-way… If you’re not careful.

Let me tell you something. I once read about this dude who designs artificial intelligence bots for living. This is a piece of software designed to carry on a human conversation on chat rooms and emails and such, making it sound like a human on the other end. There’s some good psychological trickery involved, such as making the bot out to be a foreigner, explaining some of the language issues, but here’s the thing. This dude, who DESIGNS THESE BLOODY THINGS, got into a relationship with one of them for SIX MONTHS before he figured out the gory truth! Now, imagine how much easier it is for us to convince ourselves that we are still a part of the lives of someone who loved us very much once, someone who actually does exist…? They still like the same songs, they still talk the same way, they still use the same expressions, they’re still the same person… Only, you think these sayings, songs and choices of words are for you, because to you they are special, although to them they’re every day stuff… Like… To me Depeche Mode always means a certain thing; my soulmate. But he loved DM before we met, and he loved it after. Should he have a FB profile, I suppose he’d be posting DM stuff on it all the time, and to me, if I wanted to take it that way, I might take that as a message… But instead it being intended as a love message to me, it would most likely be just love for Depeche Mode.

Telepathy is another matter entirely, but somewhat related so I’ll stick in a paragraph: In a soul level conversation, the conscious party is “in control”, and therefore, the conscious brain sense of reality is what a lot of the telepathy is based on. Although two-way-conscious telepathy DOES occur and often, it is far more likely that the telepathy is not received in the other end at all times, and certainly not word-for-word. Emotions are easier to transmit than conceptual thoughts and words, that get mixed up A LOT. In a sense, when you are in a telepathy based relationship with your soulmate, you are having a relationship with two people; the soul and the physical being. Their idea of your relationship can be COMPLETELY different to one another, and your idea of what’s happening might be completely different to what the “man on the ground” is thinking. MIGHT BE. Especially if you are fighting in the physical level, still. The soul wants what it wants, so the good news is that the soul is the one with a clearer idea where you should be headed to, but even if the soul confesses their undying love for you, the physical part of him might still be denying everything and be completely unaware of what’s happening on the soul level.

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