Find out your true values through separation from your True Emotion Mirror

The True Emotion Mirror Challenge -post series will discuss the varied reasons for soulmate separation. Hopefully, this series will help you understand the underlying, often hard to notice questions that the Universe is begging you to answer for yourself.

What is in common to all Destination Soulmate relationships to some extent and life experiences, in general, is that there are always choices to be made, and those choices define who you (currently) are. I compared this process to taking several grading exams at the same time, just to be able to tell where on the spiritual development chart you are, at this moment. Just like child development, you only need to know where they are at, so you can scale the challenges and lessons accordingly, to keep them interesting but not overwhelming – unless it’s time for overwhelming. If nothing else, this helps the Universe to scale your challenges so that they are always just hard enough for you to stay where you are at for as long as you need to stay; The Universe sometimes shoots you in the foot, so you don’t run away from your happiness. Most humans have the same goal: to grow, and these challenges are designed to make it possible for you to grow; get out of your comfort zone and force you to find new strength inside yourself.

In the future posts in the series, I will discuss what choices are present in each True Emotion Mirror challenge, to guide you to more efficiently study each question for yourself. In this one, I invite you to independently study your situation and see if you can find a reoccurring theme in your life: Is there a choice you are asked to make over and over? Do you tend to make the same choice over and over, which results in a prolonged separation from one of your soulmates or in not being able to hold onto any of your soulmates at all? Sometimes you need to learn to be less selfish; sometimes, you need to find selfishness in you; all in all, life is a question of finding a good balance between “all or nothing.” Life is not black and white – if it were, it would be simple, but here your values are being measured, and your will is being tested. Your love is on trial.

Imagine yourself being in a psychological testing laboratory without knowing it. You think you’re in there to say, to reveal which color clothes women are most likely to buy, but in reality, you are being tested for your own personal likes and dislikes. The goal is that someone wants to organize the craziest birthday party for you (they must love you), and they want to make sure everything runs without a hitch. That’s a terrible example, but what The Universe is asking: “How do I organize the best possible party you’ve ever had?” If you are one of those people who are decidedly unsatisfied with everything in your life, the Universe will give you the closest answer to what makes you happy: Lots of reasons to moan and complain. Your values are also tested in a way to ask what it is that you’d do anything for, do you choose family over love or career over love or what? God only wants to know what rocks your boat and strikes you fancy, that’s all. Whatever you choose is the right answer at the time, it’s just recorded in your Universal Grade Report with an indifferent: “Uh that’s interesting – that makes sense, further testing might be in order…” comment from God, as he creates the next challenge for your poor heart to endure. 😉 As a side product, you’ll learn to know yourself and possibly even predict what you would do in a given situation without any need to go there in reality.

Your values are also tested in a way to ask what it is that you’d do anything for, do you choose family over love or career over love or what? God only wants to know what rocks your boat and strikes you fancy, that’s all, and what is it that you are willing and capable of accepting. If you are always saying no to what you really want, the temptations will eventually stop coming up and bugging you if you only want a calm peaceful life with your wife or husband, but as soon as you find yourself wondering if there was something more… The Universe answers: “Oh yes there is, do you want it now?” Whatever you choose is the right answer at the time, it’s just recorded in your Universal Grade Report with an indifferent: “Uh that’s interesting – that makes sense, further testing might be in order…” comment from God, as he creates the next challenge for your poor heart to endure. 😉 As a side product, you’ll learn to know yourself and possibly even predict what you would do in a given situation without any need to go there in reality.

In all God wants you to answer one question: What can I do to make you truly happy? It sounds simple enough, but he needs specific answers. He doesn’t settle for: “Oh I think I would like to marry my True Emotion Mirror and then have 2.1 children with them.” He needs you to know for absolute certainty what you want, or he runs a risk of giving you something you thought you wanted but didn’t really… (And no, he DOES NOT KNOW who you are without a failure, but he certainly knows you better than you do.) Your True Emotion Mirror is also very exact. You lie to yourself just a little bit, and you’ll find yourself with a Precious Soulmate*. (I personally lied that I wasn’t THAT keen on rock stars…) But if you don’t seem to be in the mindset of giving him any more answers, he’ll slug you with something “along those lines?” -present, and when you find yourself unhappy with that he’ll ask you again: “So tell me, what DO YOU want, precisely, this time?” As long as you’re satisfied, he’s satisfied. That is why so many don’t even contemplate true love as an option, they are perfectly happy in their boring ass relationships, but if you are reading this, you probably want more and you are still out there trying to figure out the ultimate answer to the most amazing question in the Universe: “If you could have anything at all, anything in this whole wide world, what would it be?”

What is most interesting, your truthful, honest answers will match those of your True Emotion Mirrors ‘ precisely, infact, they DEFINE your True Emotion Mirror, so don’t sell them short by lying to yourself or to God! If you feel you are not good enough for your True Emotion Mirror – become good enough, because that’s who you are. If you feel the person you are thinking about is not worthy of that effort, figure out who is, because they will be much more likely to be your True Emotion Mirror than a person who you don’t care for enough to become their dream girl or their dream guy. Stop modesty and sacrifice, become greedy and lustful. Demand more, demand faster, want more, want faster! Become impatient and disagreeable! The more you demand, the more impossible you make it, the more lustfully God fulfils your crazy dreams! He’ll lovingly laugh at you and brings about the circumstances that you need to fulfil those dreams, but before that he’ll ask: “Are you sure, because you sound quite insane?”

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