For your own good, don’t make this into a SOCIAL EVENT.

Whatever you do, don’t make studying what I blog about into a SOCIAL EVENT. Only sit and share this with your best friends; never use this as a community event with people you are unwilling to spend the rest of your life with. (This is not a test of obedience, but a necessary warning). Either follow this rule as it is, or let me explain as this does sound a little extreme.

What I mean is: Don’t create churches or spiritual groups of any description for teaching my material. No “church picnic” type of events, either. Don’t use it in spiritual retreat-type situations UNLESS you employ the Buddhist type vow of silence at the same time.

Let me say that I ASKED to be shown to problems before they present themselves in real life, and this is what has presented itself in spirit… Over and over and over again. Completely unpredictably to me when I got started.

I write about these HIGH DOPAMINE topics: spirituality, sexuality, love, and UNBREAKABLE LOVE relationships and FRIENDSHIP; it draws in people who believe that ANYONE who is studying these topics is DESPERATE to find a NEW love bond, often even HOPING TO REPLACE others’ True Emotion Mirror (Twin Flame) bond THEMSELVES.

Never organize a teaching course or event during which people might be BONDING with you or other participants.

ONLY EVER teach this stuff to large audiences in an introductionary format, if at all. Indeed, people don’t need to interact with anyone to learn this. I have DELIBERATELY made this so that it works for ANY INDIVIDUAL anywhere in the world. However, it is NOT suitable for GROUPS, even though I acknowledge poly bonded lovers. This ban is for YOUR good and the good of others; you may want to HELP but wind up hurting if you teach these things in a social environment.

NEVER allow teaching this to become a SOCIAL EVENT, to protect everyone from people desperately seeking love wherever someone mentions “love.” There will be people present who are desperately attempting to bond with anyone they deem “available,” whether they are or are not. People who want to treat this as an excuse to have an afternoon picnic are the people who have always ruined philosophies and practices for everybody else, as they don’t WANT IT to be complicated; they want it to be an excuse for SOCIALISING and BONDING over. THEY WILL RUIN IT by making it more palatable as a form of ENTERTAINMENT. My website – my writing is not entertainment. My blog is fucking University level schoolwork into soul-bond love relationships. Reading my content is NOT MEANT TO BE FUN FOR EVERYBODY.

Keys in YOUR OWN hands

Only ever teach this for people who genuinely want to read this stuff ALONE AT HOME, and don’t listen to excuses about “not having had time for their homework” or whatnot. If their NATURAL INTEREST isn’t enough for them to read yet another post like a glutton, they’re not ready for this. IF you enjoy these posts and consider them entertaining BY YOURSELF, you’re in the right place, but if you find yourself groaning in PAIN at the mere THOUGHT of having to read yet another post, you’re in the wrong place.

I am putting your life back into YOUR HANDS, but if YOU are trying to push your life into another person’s hands by the use of these texts and FORCING THEM to carry not only THEIR LOAD but yours as well, you’re doing it wrong, and YOU ARE NOT READY FOR THIS STUFF… And they should protect themselves against you with these texts.

Don’t be suckered into REPEATING yourself endlessly.

Don’t let your ego be suckered in by people who want to keep your ATTENTION while PRETENDING to listen to you to learn. They don’t think you’re intelligent. Keep that in mind. They believe you are INTERESTED in THEIR attention. They will force you to re-explain things to them over and over and over. Disappoint them. Be BORED with this topic when they ask. Redirect the conversation to whatever else until you can leave. They want your attention, and if THIS IS what keeps your attention on them, they’ll be “interested.” Don’t be suckered. 😉

I am not building communities here out of co-dependent people. I am building up INDIVIDUALS capable of COLLABORATION with their equals, not with their dependents. My goal is to make responsible adults happier in their relationships, particularly in romantic and sexual relationships. Unbelievably, considering the warning here, lol. Because there’s a spiritual element to these texts, there are people (present with me in spirit) who INSIST on twisting it into a sex cult, no matter how much I try to untwist it.

There’s always the fuckwit who will interpret this whatever way they want

You are responsible for what you take from this and how you interpret it. If you’re a shitty person, your interpretation will be shitty. AND I HATE IT that I still have to acknowledge there IS room for interpretation no matter how CLEAR I try and make it. A selfish person will always find a way to interpret it selfishly – and what anyone considers selfish is also a matter of debate. I’ll have to accept this.

You will, AT ANY RATE, at the end of the day, be responsible for your happiness. That is the bottom line here. If you try to use these texts to obligate another person to take care of YOUR happiness, YOU KNOW, and THEY SHOULD KNOW you’re misusing the texts, and you shouldn’t give a damn what they say AGAINST YOU by using these texts to do it. What I ask of you to do, is to PROTECT YOURSELF from users and abusers using these texts. Whatever other purpose another person will ATTEMPT to use them for, don’t buy into it. Let them keep on pretending to have understood what these texts are for, and stay your course. And yes. There’ll be people who will interpret that as permission to remain abusive toward other people, and there’s nothing I can do about that.

You can say these things (safely)

“By reading the blog at InnerBeastLibrary.com, I came to the conclusion that I am XX XX Y X, and therefore, I’m looking for people who are YY YX X Y. You don’t know what I’m talking about? OK, here’s a link.”

Do not become a teacher, become a promoter. If they don’t want to read it, if it’s too difficult, if they just want your attention as you waste time “teaching them”, don’t. Just don’t. Tell them it’s forbidden from the readers of the material to pose as teachers of it, and that you take it seriously.

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