Free will and how a True Emotion Mirror fucks with your brain

As the Old Souls*, you value free will above anything else in this Universe. Therefore, concepts like True Emotion Mirrors (where you cannot choose who you love and you are bound to one individual that you didn’t exactly choose but was chosen for you) and the idea of someone being able to control your mind even to an extent will make you very uncomfortable, doesn’t it? (the Young Soul* love this idea of mind control because they always see themselves in the position of the person who controls, not the one who is being controlled.)

Your personality is locked from “unauthorized access”

So what happens is this: Destination Soulmates are so closely attuned in their energy, that they are already predisposition to understand each other on a telepathic level without even trying. When they tune to your frequency, which they do very easily, they can access parts of you that you would never allow someone else to come near. With the love that they feel for you and the love that you accept, they have an access to your “programming” that you have given the-the admin rights to do with as you please if you allow a nerdy analogy. (There is very little about spirituality that cannot be explained through a tech metaphor.) These people, that you love more than anyone else in this world, have the programmer’s rights to do with your mind anything they wish – including agreeing to who is the master programmer and who is the hired help – because the same way as them, you have an access to their programming, and you modify each other’s coding until there is a conflict (usually only mild) that the master programmer can override if needed. (Most often) Your emotional settings are ALWAYS protecting your free will, however, and the final say is with you if you have a clear “access denied” setting somewhere, that is so important to you that you will never allow anyone to change about you. That setting may even be an agreement between yourself and your True Emotion Mirrors , such as; “no matter what, you will not turn bisexual because that will ruin our fun”.

Because your personality is a precious thing, schooling and teaching only has as much of an effect as what your “programmer access settings” allow for “public access”. The rest, is acceccible only for those you have given an access to.

Mind-melting love

In practicality, when you are with your True Emotion Mirror, they will have an idea about something in their mind, and no matter what you have thought about the actual action before, the idea that they hold in their mind is likely to resonate with you in such a way that you can see yourself doing something that you’d never thought you’d even consider. Sometimes True Emotion Mirrors freak out about this because they feel like they are losing control with their True Emotion Mirror, but in reality, they are simply seeing a new perspective to something they knew they had already made their mind up about strongly but based on false information.

Let’s  think one night stands, for example, or sleeping with someone on the first date (or meeting). You might have decided a long time ago, that you will NEVER have a one night stand. That is simply not the kind of a person you are. In comes your True Emotion Mirror, who is more than accustomed to one night stands. To them, one night stands are fun and playful, and they feel a connection to a new person that they feel they can hold while they’re both looking for True Love, knowing full well, that the next person they sleep with next MAYBE their True Love. To you, those two things don’t go together because that is what you have been taught. “If you sleep with someone on the first date, they only want that one thing and then it’s done.” In their mind, however, that is not at all the case, if someone won’t sleep with you the first night you’re together, it means they are not sexually attracted to you and as that is the case, they are will not interested in sharing their lives with them (or they feel the No Sex On First Date -person just wants to keep them as a backup plan in case they get nobody else and train them that “sex is not happening in this relationship”) so they feel 100% rejected (turned down) or used, and will never be seen again. However, you might feel like they are THIS CLOSE to talking you into sleeping with them, and you feel manipulated, and at this stage people make a judgement call; to trust the instinctive knowledge that this is not the same thing you’ve accustomed to or were warned about  but that this is the beginning of a love story, or do you talk yourself out of it because you are being taken for a fool… Can be the life and death to your True Emotion Mirror connection, depending on which stage it is on at the time of your meeting.

Your True Love will show you appreciation for things you never knew how to love

In a relationship with a True Emotion Mirror, you are BOUND TO learn A LOT of new things, and find appreciation for things you have never thought about. This is because you both value the same things and you automatically talk to each other in the way that speaks to the other person on a level that another person could not tweak to. (Of course this is not to say that other people cannot teach you new stuff and that if you learn something from somewhere they are automatically a True Emotion Mirror, but that True Emotion Mirrors ALWAYS teach each other new tricks when they are in an actual relationship with each other… Not deliberately nor in the way of taking out a flip board and explaining things, but by simply talking about the stuff they love with the exact right words to make sense to and resonate deeply with the other. For instance, something as innocent as a good suit. Your True Emotion Mirror might have been dating a tailor at some stage, and they’ve picked up an appreciation towards well-tailored suit, and, as a result, they look at your suit, shriek in horror and demand you to, at once, get yourself a great suit – and as they talk about the suits, you start seeing them in a different light, as a form of art and high culture and tradition, rather than the monkey suit you thought of them as before as you begrudgingly wore one. When a Trail Companion* would demand you to wear a suit so you don’t embarrass them, a True Emotion Mirror would want to pamper you with a good suit because you deserve nothing but the best.)

This process is natural between True Emotion Mirrors , they become more alike as time moves on. In the next life, they are already well adjusted to each other and each other’s ways, that are their own ways as much as each others, and they feel instantly comfortable with each other – even if the rational mind does it’s best to screw things up for them both and often succeeds, too…

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